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I scared and there's something not "normal" in my room

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Question - (27 May 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 July 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay so this is very akward for me to ask help on. So lately i've been feeling weird things.(i do not have any disorders nor am i on drugs) it only happens when im in my room. I feel like im being watched i feel eyes on me..I get scared like i feel like im in danger. I frequently have nightmares but last night was the worst. Okay so i wasnt alone or anything, but like my bf was sleeping and i heard tapping under my bed, and i couldnt move or wake him up(this isnt a nightmare) and i finally woke him up and asked for him to hug me. Then i woke up on and off through the night. I woke up once and saw and man in my room..this scared me soo bad. but i blinked and it went away..idk if i was too tired r what? Im only 17 idk if this helps any? i think im being haunted and it scaring me! the thing i notice tho is when my bf is over weird things will happen, like candles will go out, feels like someones watching etc. but like right now im in my living roop and scared as S***. i'm not going back in there. i think my mind is playing tricks on me right now cuz i like hear things in there right now...PLEASE help me idk what to do..il be moving out soon but i dont want watever this is too follow me! please..

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A female reader, nogger United Kingdom +, writes (9 July 2010):

The not being able to move and seeing a strange man is a very common thing. Its called a waking dream. You cant move because you are really still asleep but are able to see and feel things. The man or anything else you may see is your dreams mixing with the real world because you are still asleep.

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A female reader, ladydela United States +, writes (18 June 2009):

ladydela agony aunttrusts me i have been through this when i was a kid i could be able to sense ghosts and there was always one in my room but soon i just ignored the ghost but if thi s ghost is reall y creppin you out you should hire a pyshic who can be able to talk to ghosts and see if there is a actuall ghosts there

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):

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Thanks for all the advice and information on different stuff! i appreciate it. also if it helps any i live in an apartment building, me my ma and little sister, we live on the first floor.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):

Are you sure there are no mice under the floor boards? Also without trying to scare you there might be somebody living in your loft or attic, coz wen me and sis were children we lived in terrace houses so the lofts of all four houses were open (no walls dividing the lofts of the four houses) and there was perv who used to watch me and sis from the lofts while we were in the bath through gaps in the ceiling. I'm sure this is not the case but it's an idea. (creepy)

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2009):

It has been proven that a really low frequency noise can make people feel scared and see ghosts.

There was a scientist who was working in a lab, and none of the assistants would work in there at night because it was "haunted" and people swore they had seen things, but he didn't believe in ghosts so he didn't care. He did feel a strange atmosphere in there and wondered what it was so he set up a little piece of wire in a clamp and noticed it was vibrating. So he went round turning things on and off to find the source of the noise and when he turned off the air con then he said he felt so so so much happier in there.

They discovered that this certain note makes the retina in your eye vibrate, so you will see a grey shape at the edge of your vision but when you turn round there will be nothing there. Your imagination will make it person shaped and you think you have seen a ghost.

So, my advice is to figure out, has there been any change in the heating / air conditioning in your house recently? Have you bought a new fridge that is under your room? Has your neighbour turned on their emergency generator? Work out when this bad feeling started and look at it scientifically.

There is nearly always a rational explanation.

Good Luck!! xx

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