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Believing in fate....The biggest LIE

This question has 12 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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27 June 2009: Do you know what the biggest lie is? The lie that people believe that our lives are shaped by fate thas the biggest lie. Everything we do is the careful path that God set us up to make our personal legends. What is our personal legend you ask? It ...

Believing in fate....The biggest LIE

Q.   Do you know what the biggest lie is? The lie that people believe that our lives are shaped by fate thas the biggest lie. Everything we do is the careful path that God set us up to make our personal legends. What is our personal legend you ask? It ...

A.   3 July 2009: oh yea im 11 years old =^.^=... (read in full...)

Believing in fate....The biggest LIE

Q.   Do you know what the biggest lie is? The lie that people believe that our lives are shaped by fate thas the biggest lie. Everything we do is the careful path that God set us up to make our personal legends. What is our personal legend you ask? It ...

A.   3 July 2009: i mean i am a christan myself and i also believe in evolution but i still think its a lie that our lives are shaped by fate.... (read in full...)

What are your views on premarital sex?

Q.   hi there, what do you think with that I think girls and boys should have sex after getting married(for the first time)no sex before marriage what is your opinion?...

A.   24 June 2009: well i believe you should have sex when your ready and your sure you guys are in love doesnt matter if your married or not... (read in full...)

I'm 16, she's 13...is the age gap too big?

Q.   I am 16 and there is a girl who is 13 who really, and I mean really! likes me. I know her best friend and she has explained how much this girl likes me. I know she is only 13 but appears very mature for her age. To begin with I liked her just as a ...

A.   24 June 2009: there is nothing wrong with you dating her an liking her but dont say anything that you wouldnt say to a 13 year old she is still a blank canvas and can be dyed any color what i am saying is dont say things to mature and also dont have sex with her ... (read in full...)

I can't tell my parents I'm gay. Should I move far away?

Q.   Well i´m gay and i cant sum up the courage to tell my parents. what should i do? i could move away, very far away. Or should i just stay single my whole life. i want children though, even if they are adopted. i dont want to live life scared....

A.   24 June 2009: look running away is not gonna solve anything sooner or later your parents will visit or call then wat? and if you stay single you will always be thinking wat life would've been like with someone you need to have them sit down and you need to talk ... (read in full...)

Why won't she return my call?

Q.   I met this girl about a month and a half ago, and we started talking, and hanging out all the time. She would stay the night multiple times, sometimes days at a time. She would also leave her things over at my place. Ive met her parents and she has ...

A.   24 June 2009: ok you need to do this obviously you told her to soon for like a few days or a week you need to just back off and let her absorb the fact that you really like her and then if she ignore you for more than 3 dyas after you stop giving her a break then ... (read in full...)

He's afraid to get married!

Q.   I really need someone to help me on this. My boyfriend is affraid to get married due to his aunt uncle grandmother dad and cousin all first not lasting. Plz help and tell me what i can do to help him get over that fear....

A.   24 June 2009: hmm it seems to me he is afraid of commitment due to watching others never lasting well i think you should put the marriage off until he is comfortable and sure and ready to marry you. If you don't wait you're going to end up forcing him and that ... (read in full...)

Cheating wife and I don't think I can forgive her!

Q.   just found out my wife has done something with another man,she said they havent had sex but only done it the once,we been together 20years,dont think i can forgive her,she says shes sorry and wants us to start again, she said it was because she was ...

A.   24 June 2009: ok think for a second: of all the other times has she been trustworthy? What if the places were switched would she forgive you? Has it been before she cheated did she seem lonely? maybe she was desperate or trying to find a escape to a problem and ... (read in full...)

Am I a fool, or is there still hope?

Q.   18 months ago I met the man of my dreams and began what I look back on as the best year and a half of my life. Our relationship was everything that I had ever wanted, everything I had searched for. This was it, I just knew it. We talked of marriage ...

A.   24 June 2009: hmm well your relationship has not gone well but still there is hope you need to think of a compromise that will not only settle for and him but you guys are happy cause obviously as i can see you guys don't seem completely happy without each other ... (read in full...)

Do long distance relationships survive?

Q.   Do you think long distance relationships will survive? I have a boyfriend and our love is strong and all but we live acrosss the country from each other. Do you think our relationship will survive? All answers will be helpful...

A.   24 June 2009: well its been about a year and have been going strong i even asked once if he wants to break up but he refused thanks for answerin... (read in full...)

What should I do? Leave him because he's an asshole with anger problems?

Q.   I've been with this guy for 9months and Its been ups and downs from the 5th month. When we use to go out he would stare at females and not hear a word I said. I finally got him to understand but it didn't last long. My b-day weekend we went out ...

A.   23 June 2009: well think about it for a second do you love him are YOU sure that he loves you back if you yes then you guys should just try to work it out if worst comes to worst go see a relationship counselor or a therapist if you guys are in love with ... (read in full...)

I embarassed my gf and now she wont talk to me!

Q.   Me and my girlfriend of 3 years went to a party together. She usually doesn't wear stuff that shows off her body cause she thinks its slutty (she only wears clothes that sre 3 sizes too big or borrows my clothes). Anyway I somehow get her to a tube ...

A.   23 June 2009: well first of all you guys need to talk it out before things makes matters worse and when you do choose your words carefully because she is mad at you and will be listening to every word you say then tell her how you were drunk and didnt realize ... (read in full...)

Me and my obsessive adopted brother....

Q.   me and my adopted brother are in love with each other. Is that weird? Is it considered as incest? last week, we had our first sex with each other. Its just that, i feel wrong and im scared if my parents found out. Its not easy to just end our ...

A.   23 June 2009: well first of all technically it is incest but as long as you two arent realted...the sex is ok but first of all do you guys live with eachother from seprate rooms? then that would be really awkward i think you should put off the relationship until ... (read in full...)

Worryed my dad will sexually abuse my niece as he did me!

Q.   I have a problem with my own dad. He sexually abused me when I was 10 years old. I am afraid he is attracted to young girls. I know he has bathed with my niece who is 8 years old, and everytime she is over, he has her on his lap. I wasn't abused by ...

A.   23 June 2009: forst you need to ask your niece if he has been doing anything with daddy that was wrong or ask her has he been touching her in "places" if she says yes call the police and tell the wife of your dad and also if she says no let it go it was over 10 ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend treats me like a doll!

Q.   My boyfriend treats me like a doll. He loves to hold me and carry me around, and he's always telling me how adorable I am. He treats me like I'm his to protect and love, like a flower he's trying to get to bloom, why do some guys do this?...

A.   23 June 2009: well maybe its because he really really loves you i know its annoying i have the same thing with my bf but it his own unique way of saying he loves you without words... (read in full...)

I'm 13, he's 14 and I want to take things alot slower!

Q.   I've been chatting to my mates old boy mate online for a while now, we've met a few times but the last time we met he suggested we went back to his to watch a few movies. I wasn't alone it was me and my mate with him and his mate. When we got to his ...

A.   23 June 2009: you need to tell him how you feel about taking things slwoer and if he doesnt want to you should break up with and you need to do it very soon before he starts getting the wrong picture... (read in full...)

How do I convince him to stop using her?

Q.   I have this problem, I like this really cool guy, he is really nice cool and sweet and he is my friend so I got to know him really well. Here is my problem he has a girlfriend. I don't mind that and all but I found and I saw and heard that he was ...

A.   23 June 2009: look one day i heard him say it to one of his guy freinds i heard with my own two ears i didnt getit from gossip... (read in full...)

Not sure how to approach a girl I like for a date?

Q.   Ok so here's my problem i met this girl at a carnival she's a cheerleader so she was working the dunk booth and i stayed there almost the intire day talking to her and afterwards we went for a walk. I found out she's a senior in high school and i'm ...

A.   22 June 2009: well first you should approach her casually then when you ask casually like her answer does not matter. then dont be too eager and dont get your hopes high it will hurt bad if she rejects you. dont just walk up and say do you wanna go out ... (read in full...)

Why did they call me "bi "in front of everyone?

Q.   sorry to all bisexuals... i am a teenager at highschool and have been having some problems and it has been upsetting me. it all started in a normal pe lesson and this girl *Chloe* came up to me and asked me if i was bisexual, i was just about t...

A.   22 June 2009: well think about before all this happened did you upset one of your freinds? did you did something bad to them before or maybe they were just trying totell you but said it too loud and also are u bisexual? if you are then you shouldnt hide it but ... (read in full...)

First date go on a ghost walk?

Q.   I've just started chatting to this girl who seems to like me and I like her. This may sound a strange thing to do on a first meeting, but would it be acceptable if I asked her on a ghost walk? If not, what do you think and where would readers ...

A.   22 June 2009: i think its a wonderful idea the reason i think that is because :she might get scared which will give you a chance to your arm around her 2 it will show her that you are brave and 3 well it might be a change from the old boring movie date so yea ... (read in full...)

I scared and there's something not "normal" in my room

Q.   okay so this is very akward for me to ask help on. So lately i've been feeling weird things.(i do not have any disorders nor am i on drugs) it only happens when im in my room. I feel like im being watched i feel eyes on me..I get scared like i feel ...

A.   18 June 2009: trusts me i have been through this when i was a kid i could be able to sense ghosts and there was always one in my room but soon i just ignored the ghost but if thi s ghost is reall y creppin you out you should hire a pyshic who can be able to talk ... (read in full...)

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