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Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?

Q.   ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...

A.   27 May 2007: ok, well. now that's cleared up. are you going to stay at your boyfriend's mothers's house? or are you and your boyfriend going to live together? since you want to keep the baby. you should start finding out how to do things if your sti... (read in full...)

What tips can you give me about making sex better for my boyfriend and I?

Q.   Please help. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly six months and we have started to try and have sex. I can make him come by blow jobs but so far he has only given me handjobs. These used to be very intense for me but recently I just haven't got ...

A.   27 May 2007: your not, maybe you have Vaginismus which means "An involuntary or persistent spasm of the muscles of the outer third of the vagina, again not attributable to physiological effects of physical causes. Vaginismus may be either lifelong or recent; ... (read in full...)

Will going on my laptop all the time affect my eyesight?

Q.   hi im 14 and on my laptop all the time if im not going out ill be on it all the time im awake. Im quite worried about what will happen to my eyesite its perfectly fine at the moment but what will it do to me and how long have i got till it starts ...

A.   27 May 2007: ok take a break from the screen every half an hour. and yes computer screens and laptop screens affect eyesight. i myself was like you. now i have to wear glasses to go on the computer. so it will affect your eyes because your eyes are co... (read in full...)

Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?

Q.   ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...

A.   27 May 2007: if the 10-12 is true then i must say. people having sex has gotten younger. what you need to do is talk to your parents, that's the most important thing. then go to your doctors or family planning clinic to get checked out see if you and your ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is forcing me to have sex with him and it's scaring me.

Q.   I am 19 year old and I have a current partner who's 36. I really like him although he's kinda pushy a little bit sexually. I told him I wasn't realy ready to have sex with him, that I could do oral and other stuff instead but yesterday he really scar...

A.   27 May 2007: what your boyfriend was doing was trying to have sex with you against your will which in the eyes of the law accounts to rape. go to the police and say your that he was going to rape you or has raped you. and don't see him again. he's not worth i... (read in full...)

My mother caught me masturbating and now I feel soooooo ashamed!

Q.   am i normal? im extremely curious and i heard some girls in my class talking about masturbating so i decided to try it, i was in the shower one day and out of curiosity i layed on my back and let the water drip onto my 'area' and i pulled back the...

A.   27 May 2007: I know it's very embaressing to be caught masturbating. I think both of you were embaressed. masturbation is a natural thing. a lot of people do it. some hide it because they are ashamed. I know it's going to be embaressing but i think you s... (read in full...)

I saw my girlfriend and another female in a VERY intimate position!!!

Q.   i went round to my girlfriends, friends house (she is a girl as well) last night as she left her phone in my apartment. however as i went to knock on the window i saw the 2 of them in a very, very intimate position. they also were half naked. i...

A.   27 May 2007: some girls do this in relationships, because they think since the person is a girl they can't possibly cheating. I think you two need to talk about this and then after you, your girlfriend and her friend need to talk about it. tell them both ... (read in full...)

I am seriously considering breaking my engagement with my fiance

Q.   I am seriously considering breaking my engagement with my fiance. For those of you interested there are a few background posts on the OW thread. But the issue right now is that I am fed up with overlooking everything he does. I'm tired of pretend...

A.   27 May 2007: ok, are you happy with the man? it seems to me he's controlling you. all those things you said. you seem to be unhappy. he's lied, he's controlling. you got pregnant and he says he didn't want a child and then the only way for you to get rid... (read in full...)

My long-distance BF is jealous of my male friend who lives close to me!

Q.   first off I'm 17, and he's 22. I have a boyfriend from another country, and of course long distance relationships tend to be hard. but then again. he says he loves me and i say i love him. but i met up with a friend today. who i used to fanc...

A.   8 December 2006: i'm very sorry eddie, i do have a two disorders. which are dyslexia and dyspraxia. both of which make life very difficult for me. basically what i was trying to say is that i was confused at it. and that the boy was trying to have a relations... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and scared to lose my virginity

Q.   I need some help, i'm 13 nd im scared ov losin my virginity. ...

A.   7 December 2006: don't worry! it's ok to be scared to lose you virginity. at your age i was as well. but you will be ok. just remember wait until your with the right person and it feels like the right time. and trust me you'll know. but don't do something you... (read in full...)

Does it hurt the first time you get fingered?

Q.   Hi, I'm 17 and I have never been fingered. I was woundering does it hurt the first time you get fingerd?...

A.   7 December 2006: yes and no. depends if your wet enough and if the person goes slow. ... (read in full...)

Would this be classed as no longer being a virgin??

Q.   if you break your hymen without doing sexual intercourse are u still a virgin ?...

A.   7 December 2006: yes your still a virgin, but then virgins are classed as different by different people. but then again if you haven't had sex then your still a virgin... (read in full...)

When he enters during sex it hurts - why?

Q.   I've been having sex with my long-distance boyfriend for a couple of months now. everytime I see him we have sex. but i've noticed when i've had sex the first time he enters it hurts. why is it hurting?...

A.   7 December 2006: thank you, luckily with the relationship we talk about everything, we spoke about it today actually. but i spoke to a teacher the other day and they said try some lube. but then again i'm not sure. i will see him for in the end of december... (read in full...)

My long-distance BF is jealous of my male friend who lives close to me!

Q.   first off I'm 17, and he's 22. I have a boyfriend from another country, and of course long distance relationships tend to be hard. but then again. he says he loves me and i say i love him. but i met up with a friend today. who i used to fanc...

A.   7 December 2006: maybe i should say that i used to fancy him, my attention is only to my boyfriend now. and don't think don't know what it's like to be jealous. my boyfriend himself, went to a concert with two girls. one of which had a strong relationship wit... (read in full...)

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