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writes:I've known this guy for like 12-13 years and i have feelings for him and i love him! I think he uses me as he only wants to no me when theres no one else around but i always say yes I'll come out if he asks me because i love him i cant say no,One day we went out and he tryed it on with me and i didnt want it to be like That, he basically forced me to feel down below. A while before i was drunk and we snogged And i thought he felt something but he obviously didnt otherwise he wudnt off done this! I dunno What to do Please help..
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reader, That Fragile Capricorn  +, writes (24 June 2009):
 He obviously doesn't respect you, and if he doesn't respect you, he's not gonna respect your relationship. I believe you should let him go, if he forces you to do things you don't want to do just to make him happy, then he honestly sounds like a jerk. I was once in a familiar situation, I eventually let him go because all he cared about was his personal needs and desires. This will probably evolve into something of that sort. Cut him out of your life. Your worth more, you deserve better than that.
Believe me, it may hurt at first, and you may be tempted to go back to him, but don't do it.
It will pay off in the end, you'll be glad that you had the strength to let him go.
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reader, MzLover +, writes (23 June 2009):
I believe u shud let him go. I've been in a situation similar 2 this. My boiyfriend and I were 2gether for almost 2yrs til I broke up wit because he started to talk to me anykind of way and didn't care about ma feelings. I wuz madly in love wit him but I cud not stay hurtin n cryin so I left him. Now I found sum1 else who likes me n treats me great. It will hurt to let him go and mite be painful after but someone betta is gonna come along. I waited 8 months the time waitin wuz painfully but I made it
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009): This boy you have known since you were a baby is forcing you to do sexual acts that you don't want to do and you are asking what you should do because you love him? He needs to be reported for abusing you. If he is forcing sexual favors then he is likely to become a rapist. Tell your parents.
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