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writes:Okay, I've gotten myself into a bit of a situation. I've just met this great guy through a mutual friend, and we get along really well. I've never had a boyfriend before, I mean I've dated and stuff but I've never actually gotten past the first few dates. But it's different with this guy, I feel so comfortable with him, and we just 'get' each other. But I'm also planning on enlisting into the military in the next couple of months. It's a career opportunity I don't want to miss, but I also don't want to miss the chance at what could be my first serious relationship. Arrgh!! What should I do? I can't have both, I know that. I'm very unhappy in the job I have now (retail) but I don't want to turn down this military job offer and then this relationship doesn't work out, and then I've lost both things. Pleeeeaassseee, what am I gonna do, I'm losing sleep over this ....
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reader, ursassygurl44  +, writes (17 March 2007):
You've been planning on this for awhile right? The job? and you're unhappy where you are. If he's as into it as you are thinks will work themselves out. Don't alter your plans and hold off on your goals, because you may regret it in the end, even if you get the man.
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