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writes:I really fancy this boy in yr8, I am in yr 7, he flirts with loads of other girls, but not as much with me. I think he likes me but I think he thinks I am too young. He is a very strange boy, as in way taller than average (but then, so am I,) and he acts like a 16 yr old, he tells me all sorts of stuff and is really open with me so (opps!) he knows that I have never snogged anyone, I am not sure if this is good or bad. I kinda know that my parents would freak if I told them that the only boy I fancy drinks vodka and goes out with yr 11 from the comprehensive near our school, I go on the train with him, which is how he knows me. I think we get along well but he is really big headed. I kinda want to go out with him but I don't know if he's just a player or some thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey, thanks for the advice,I now know that he's got a girlfriend, so I've kinda lost interest, but I still see him pretty much everyday so I'm glad that he knows about me and stuff.
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reader, GreenTea  +, writes (4 December 2007):
im 18. And i'm a huge flirt. And let me tell you. Its hurting me right know... You don't want to fall for this guy. I fell for a girl that was like me (a flirt) and now I know how much it hurts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): He sounds to me like he is just a big show off. If you get to know each other a little more then yea, go for it, ask him out, see how things work but dont rush into anything with this guy. yes it is a good thing you told him you havnt snogged anyone. your first kiss needs to be right. doesnt it? good luck luv xxxx
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reader, Yabbiyum +, writes (3 December 2007):
Recognize that even at your age, dating a boy is a temporary thing. This will probably NOT turn out to be the BIG LOVE of your life. With that in mind, you can take the chance at letting him know you want to spend time alone with him. Invite him to something innocent enough - for coffee or an afternoon walk. If he accepts, it means he's interested in you, then you can talk with him and see where it goes. If not, that's your answer from him. Remember, his seeming to have a 'big head' is all external, it's a facade, bravado. Don't take guff from him at face value. The bigger the head, the softer the inside. Be patient with him. He may still flirt with other girls to make himself feel good. Should you get to the point of going with him 'exclusively', you can always explain to him that kind of thing makes you unhappy. Best of luck :)
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