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*ovelymac
writes:I have been friends with my boyfriend's brother for years. We hooked up right after me and boyfriend started dating but all we did was kiss. And for years I have had a crush on my boyfriend's brother. A couple of weeks ago I went out to dinner with my romate and my boyfriend's brother. We had a little too much to drink and my boyfriend's brother ended up kissing me and we made out for a while and did some other stuff other then sex. Then afterwards we made a vow to never tell anyone and to keep it between us. HE told me that it had been coming on for a while and that he has had feelings for me for years. Then the next day when we saw each other he told me that it couldn't happen again. Then a week later he came into my room when I was sleeping and we made out again except this time it was more intense and there was much more involved but still no sex and he was sober this time. Then the very next night we were drinking again and we ended up having sex and he was telling me that I was his and how much he liked me etc. I have fallen for him so hard that I can't stop thinking about him. Then the other day we were talking and he told me that he had a fantasy about my roomate....?! I got so mad and jealous but I didn't say anything. Why would he say that? I love my boyfriend to death but his brother is so different and he's such a crazy lover. What should I do??? I want him to want me as much as I want him. But I don't want to break up with my boyfreind or for my boyfriend to find out. Oh and did I mention my boyfriend's brother is one of my roomates? Yeah so it's really hard to just forget about him.
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reader, mary-lee  +, writes (20 July 2007):
 you poor thing! i personaly believe that you can love two people at once. i think you should stick with your b/f. his brother doesn't seem like a decent person if he is doing this to his own brother. imagin what he might do to you if you start dating him! i agree with mandy and he just wants sex, and a threesome if you will go with it! you are in a difficult position being roommates. you really have yo work out what you want to do. just remember you have to resect yourself, because no one else will!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): Sounds to me love that your in a right mess...
This guy is after one thing and one thing only SEX WITH YOU AND YOUR ROOM MATE TO!
This has been going down for a long time he is a player he sees something out of bounds i.e you his brothers(of all people) g/friend and thinks i'll have abit of that, and now he wants abit of your mate as well, And by the way he told you it wouldnt suprise me if he wanted you both together....
What a mess! people talk how long do you think this will be kept quiet? He obviously wants it kept shtum because of his poor brother, I can only say this will continue as long as you let it and word of mouth will get round, so you really have to be honest with your b/friend and stop it happening. Love guys like this are not worth it at all, they only think of themselves...Think of the hurt this will cause and do the right thing hunny... TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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