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writes:i have been married for only two years and a half.but my marriage is already falling apart.we fight and we also physical fight.he looks at other when i ask him he tells me hes admiring their beauty.is he the right man for me.because i think am losing my mind.we have one child. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2010): You both need to talk things over and if this doesn't work, seek counselling together.
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reader, Priyanka09  +, writes (20 September 2010):
 hey,
what are the reasons of the fight if I may ask? Why do you guys using physical action to fight? It should only be verbal. Please think of days when things were fine between you guys and try to figure out what went wrong and where. If he tells you he is only admiring the beauty, please believe him. Please dont fight on such trivial issues. Please tell yourself that this is my life, which is under my control and I want my marriage to work no matter what. I will do what it takes to make my marriage a success. Then you will also make efforts to save this marriage. You will go extra mile to make him happy, you will willingly do things that can bring peace in your house. You have a child. Do you want him to bear the brunt of a divorce. You also know that divorce is not beautiful. You will have to go through another trauma if you actually decide to break off. Why dont you save yourself from that. This is the right time. Please take sincere, conscious efforts to make things right. You can start with small changes like not coaxing him for everything, ignoring things that you can afford to ignore, if in case of argument, chose to stay calm and not get abusive. Get surprise gifts for your husband. Plan a surprise date with him, buy a new dress, impress him. Rekindle this marriage. You have to make it work, no matter what it takes.....
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reader, jimrich  +, writes (20 September 2010):
RE: is he the right man for me.because i think am losing my mind.we have one child.
.... Well that's really TOO BAD for your child. Kids need and deserve the best parental role models you can give them - not ones losing their mind!
There is no such thing as 'the right man'! All there is is the RIGHT RELATIONSHIP KNOWLEDGE - knowing exactly how to make a relationship work and provide your child with a good and happy home. google: relationship tips and learn how to make things right for you child. After your child grows up, then you can screw up as much as you please.
Be a good example to your kids!
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reader, Red591 +, writes (20 September 2010):
 which came first? child or marriage?
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