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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hiya any answers you give me is appreciated Well i like this lad who is a friend and has a girlfriend who is my friend aswel because we hang in a group. I really like him and i don't know what to do when they are together and im there. But their relationship isn't so great as he told our other mate he's trying to find a nice way to end it.We used to text each other alot as mates also and my friend didn't mind but then she told him to stop texting me. At times i just wish they'd split up. That sounds awful and i feel like a terrible person for liking him.We talk to each other when we go out but then my friend (his girlfried) comes over n interrupts. One weekend we went out and he was ill and he grabbed my hand and wouldn't let go even when his girlfriend came back from the shop.I need your help as to how to stop liking him because i would never do anything to hurt my friend.How do i stop liking him?Please help.Thanks for reading this problem. Its a bit long sorry.Anon X x X
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 June 2008):
 Hang in there and let nature take it's course. It sounds like the break up is imminent. You may still lose the girlfriend because her behavior indicates that she is aware of his attraction to you. But in time she may realize that her relationship with him just wasn't in the cards and will let bygones be bygones. Good luck.
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