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anonymous
writes:hey.random question that occurs all the time in pretty much everbody!basically, i am mid teens and i think i like this guy, even though he is not instinctivly fit or any thing, but he has a really nice personbality an di find it really easy to talk to him, we could talk 4 hours sum tyms bout normal things and not get bored, he is funny, complimental and very nice, he is generally a trustworthy guy (sort of, it kinda depends on the situation, we have fun when we meat up)in conclussion i think he likes me. i have alot of fun with him but i have not been alone with him as of yet.heres the problem. 1, i cant tell by his body language because i rarely see him, even though we allways meet up when he is in town, which is very fun!2, he lives in london but goes to uni near me (hours from london!)3, i have aspergers syndrome, which is why i cannot tell by body language etc etc. those of you hu dont knbow wot it is i suggest u go look it up before replying, if u do, that is! please do help me! its driving me insane thinking bout him all da tym! 4, he is 18! ouch, i know, i know, very stoopid and ridiculed by myslef, too, i dont think it is love but most likely lust, but i still need some one to make me see sense!5,he went out with my best mates sister for about a year and has only recenlyt split up ith her.Basically...i Think that he likes me, but instinctivly i dont find him attractivr apart from his very nice blue eyes and wavy beach hair!- but i think may be hormines and stuff talkin, and maybe i have fort soo much bout him that i may be fantasing bout him being better than he is etc, i think he likes me becus we flirt dirty all the tym that possibly he likes me, but only for sexual matters etc, which is not ahat i want, i dont want to be taken for a ride on the rebound!we constantly flirt and text and email each other, and fings often turn quite dirty. he compliments me all the tym and takes an interest in what i enjoy and seeing me, sum what alone. (he has asked me out 3 or 4 tyms but i have not been able to wrok out whether it is just mates or not. sumtyms he takes the lead snd talks to me first other tyms he doesent.I am so confused! please help guys! surely it is wrong for us to like each other? at first i fort he was pervy, that was wot mi best mate fort wen she recieves text from him ( no where as dirty as mine, he refers tome as a sex object all the time which makes me think that he thinks that i am a easy target despite the fact that i have many hu would willingkly beat ny one hu muks me around, even though fighting is never the answer to anything but you know.....he says now i am older that it is ok to flirt like that wid me, sum tyms i ecourage his bqad behaviour becus i sort of like it, even thouhg instinctivly i know i is very erong. i am willing to give him up, like wise i am willing to takes things slightly further, but not much further mind! if things were to improve then i would make sure he knows i am not a sex object. hethinks i am hot, like most guys do, and he also has so many nic pet names for me all of the complimental.pleas ehelp me!i see him this friday!!!! eeeekkkkk!!! i need answers! before i make a fool of myself!
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (16 June 2008):
 Whether you make a fool out of youself or not you need to question him on his intentions with you.
Its not wrong for you to like each other at all though.
If he is flirting with other people like your friend at the same time it does sound like he may be out just for the ride which in that case you need to decided if you are willing to allow.
Ask him straight out and then you will have your answer.
Peaches
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female
reader, peaches83 +, writes (16 June 2008):
Whether you make a fool out of youself or not you need to question him on his intentions with you.
Its not wrong for you to like each other at all though.
If he is flirting with other people like you friend at the same time it does sound like he may be out just for the ride which in that case you need to decided if you are willing to allow.
Ask him straight out and then you will have your answer.
Peaches
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female
reader, peaches83 +, writes (16 June 2008):
Whether you make a fool out of youself or not you need to question him on his intentions with you.
Its not wrong for you to like each other at all though.
If he is flirting with other people like you friend at the same time it does sound like he may be out just for the ride which in that case you need to decided if you are willing to allow.
Ask him straight out and then you will have your answer.
Peaches
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A
female
reader, peaches83 +, writes (16 June 2008):
Whether you make a fool out of youself or not you need to question him on his intentions with you.
Its not wrong for you to like each other at all though.
If he is flirting with other people like you friend at the same time it does sound like he may be out just for the ride which in that case you need to decided if you are willing to allow.
Ask him straight out and then you will have your answer.
Peaches
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