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I need to know the answer to an age old question--Does size really matter??

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Question - (12 February 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Does size matter?

Im 17 years old and never had a girlfriend because everytime sombody asks me out im to shy about showing my penis if we ever got around to having sex, this is also the reason why i am too worried to ask anyone out.

My penis is 1.5 inches flop and 4.5 inches erect. Alot less than most men.

I was wondering, does size matter to women. I've read all sorts of things like girls only go for a 10 incher, or it's how you use it and not the size.

please help me!

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A male reader, Dr. John United States +, writes (14 February 2007):

Dr. John agony auntAbraham Lincoln was once asked the question; "How long should a mans legs be?"

His answer; I would say about long enough to reach from his body to the ground.

The point being, each person is different and there is no too long or too short.

However, at your age you may still have more to come. Check out the link I am providing. On the left side of the website click on number six. This should help put your mind at ease. Doc.

http://www.jackinworld.com/

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (13 February 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntAhhh!!! I'm so happy for you! Than you for the update, it put a smile on my face. I'm so happy for you! Enjoy the relationship as it grows and progesses! Have fun, sweetness. What good timing, too! Right before Valentine's Day. Awwww.

Happiness!

xxIndia

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2007):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for your advice, because today i plucked up the courage to ask this girl out i have liked for a very long time and she said YES!!! I cant beleive it, at the moment im not even bothered if i dont even have a penis

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2007):

Your size sounds perfectly normal sized for a man. The average is only 5 inches so you aren't too far off and the study that proved that had plenty of men your size and even smaller.

Just remember there is much more to pleasing a woman than with just your penis. Clitorial stimulation, foreplay, oral sex, use of fingers, etc. is all very important in pleasing a woman. Not to mention the emotional connection.

I've come to learn after all these years that men worry MUCH, MUCH more about how big our penises are than women ever do or will.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (13 February 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntHey sweetness,

Well, your penis sounds just fine. It's a fine size, totally acceptable and normal. But I think you're reeeaaallly concerned about sex. Sex is just a part of a relationship, it's not the whole thing. If you get a girlfriend, you'll have lots of time to build a relationship with her before you move on to sex. And once you've taken months and months - even a year or two to get to know each other, you'll be so in love she'll love all of you AND your penis.

When you do find a special someone, don't worry right away about the sex. It's not about the sex or the dick. It's about getting to know each other and loving each other for what's on the inside. You won't love her for the size of her boobs, right? Even if they're not huge DD's? No, that won't matter to you. You'll love your girlfriend for who she is... the sex is just a bonus.

Don't be too worried about your penis and the sex. That'll come later. For now, concern yourself with building a fun, deep, meaningful relationship.

Good luck, sweetness!

xxIndia

P.S Your penis does sound absolutely normal. And a 10 incher?!? Oh my Lord, I wouldn't let one NEAR me! That's huge! Too big! Ow, ow, ow!

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A female reader, MissyP United States +, writes (13 February 2007):

MissyP agony auntNot all girls go for size...its mostly how you use it...if you were to have a big dick and not be the best in bed thats nothing compared to someone being smaller and being great with it...I wouldnt worry about how big you are..a girl shouldnt love u becasue how big ur dick is but about the person u really are...dont be afraid to date anyone...be confident in who u are..and things will turn out dont u worry..if u want any women advice im always here to talk

missy

xoxo

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A female reader, taytay United Kingdom +, writes (13 February 2007):

size does not matter it is how you use it.

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