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I need to get over my ex so I can move on and give my heart to my new guy

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Question - (30 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok so i dated a guy for 2 1/2 years! i did everything for him. bought everything, just showed him my love, gave him my whole heart.but he did nothing for me. never held my hand or told me how pretty I was, and he was controling.

so i broke up with him... it broke his heart. he swore up and down he would change but i knew he would not. but were still good friends. we text all the time.

so 4 months after the break up i met this guy that treated me like a princess and still does!!! but for some reason i cant get my ex off my mind!!! every girl he talks to i get soooo jealous! and cry =( but the new guy treats me like how ive always been treated.

it took me 2 months to fall for the new guy. and my ex has been talking to a girl for a week and has already fallen for her.

so what im asking is how do i let go of my ex? because it still hurts seeing him with this new girl.

i need to get over him so i can embrace this new guy and give him all my heart.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010):

If he promised to change himself for you then why didnt you gave him a chance?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010):

you cant be fully over your ex if your still jelous of when he has a girlfriends, and thats not fair on the guy who treats you like a princess that your still thinking about your ex, shouldnt be that way, maybe it would be best to cut all ties with your ex and see how you feel then, if you still feel for your ex then you should consider this relationship you have with this other guy your never gonna love the other guy properly and thats not fair on him.. i was with a guy who left me, and i was heartbroken he thought grass was greener, use to have his mates ring me to tell me what he had been doing with other girls, and that use to strike deep, and i dreadded the day when he would meet someone else the pain that it would be, but as all this was going on i met this other man and boy did he help with the pain, i was not botherd then what my ex got up to didnt hurt me like it use to, because i learnt to love again, and this guy i am with now treats me like a princess, and i enjoy it love him to bits like he does me, so before you get into another relashionship which sounds like a nice loving and caring guy be sure your well over your ex cause it could be like a rebound relashionship and that wont work.. good luck.

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A male reader, lionelhutz United States +, writes (30 September 2010):

If you're trying to forget you ex, maybe being friends and texting with him "all the time" isn't helping.

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