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writes:I just found out that my gf is watching lesbian porn...when I'm not home idk its kinda bother me what should I do..we have been togetherfor a year and half and we have sex at least 4 time a week should I talk to her about it
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reader, NikitaAna  +, writes (23 September 2012):
 Oh,i watch them too.It is not matter what porns she likes to look,maybe she likes to watch trilers or horrors,and she is not murrder i guess :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2012): Maybe because she doesn't want to watch a women allowing a man to degrade her, slap her, shove his penis down her throat, ejaculate on her face, etc.? Think about it....
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reader, person12345 +, writes (30 August 2012):
 Is it the porn or the lesbian part that bothers you? If the lesbian part, most straight porn is made for straight men and generally isn't that appealing to most women, it doesn't mean she is a lesbian.
If it's the porn part, I have many links about this on my profile (click my username to get there) and they might be helpful to read through.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (30 August 2012):
 Is there some reason you can't talk to her about it? "Hey, babe, I saw on the internet history that you were looking at some interesting sites.... um... okay, you were looking at lesbian porn... is this something that I should be concerned about? And more importantly, is there something that I can do to make our sex life even more spectacular than four times a week? I want you to be happy and I want me to be happy.... Let's work together to make this a really great sex life."
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (30 August 2012):
 What exactly is it that bothers you about it? You haven't given us much to go on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2012): i only watch lesbian porn, and i am happily married, just because you fantasize about it does not mean you want it to happen!The truth of the matter is most straight porn is not depicting reality! but rather a misogynistic view on how men should treat a woman in bed, were the woman or women in the scene are getting chocked by a grown man’s penis been stuffed down their throats and been dragged around my the hair, not to mention how fake the moaning and groaning is or when they ask their partner to have anal sex with them faster and faster...Most of the time, which is not all the time, on girl on girl action the girl is allowed to keep some dignity and do what most women love, body exploring loads of foreplay and oral sex which we love... and even when they are penetrating each other its sexy sensual and it looks like something most women would enjoy.if straight porn was like that more often, perhaps most women would be interested in it!.However talk to her, because you never know, each people are different.plus you don’t specify what your concern actually is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2012): I think you should ask her. Its not everyday you find your girlfriend that you assumed to be straight, watching lesbian porn. And there maybe more to this than meets the eye.
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