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writes:Hi "b I need help I.just got married with my husband who.has a daughter that is seven I love that lil girl bit the mom I just don't know what to say! in first place they live in Mexico we send money every two weeks and before the two weeks are over she is already calling for more money I wouldn't have a problem with it if after we give her money the first time we will be left with some but we arnt. unfortunately for me and her that is not what I hate about her what I hate the most is that calls and true gLoomy to my husband like if they are still are together telling him she loves him when is going to visit her sfr. He has told her he doesn't love her n will only see her because the baby is involved she trys adding to the conversation the only problem is that he puts her on speaker phone that way she cant say.extra things I recently have wanted kids but I don't want them no more I will be tying my tubes I am scared he will love his daughter more than our kids and I will not bring a baby to suffer that I don't say this because I hate the baby it is just that what Ever the babys wants she gets and her mom has taughter to ask for everything from cheap to expensive stuff I need help i need someone to help me control my anger and resentment please someone respond I feel lonely.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (5 January 2012):
 I would suggest that your husband get a court order agreement set in place with a SET amount of $$ per month, and if the child indeed need something he can CHOOSE to help out.
As for the child, she is a kid and have no idea what things cost and what things a worth, they just see stuff and want it. Pretty normal for a child. It doesn't mean they HAVE to get everything they want though, don't get me wrong lol.
As for everything else I suggest you talk to your husband about the resentment towards the ex and you two figure out how to handle it and still be respectful to you and your marriage.
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