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writes:Everything seems to just be going completly wrong and i cant seem to just be happy. I'm usually an EXTREMELY outgoing person, can talk to anyone, make anyone laugh, but that part of me is just being eaten up. My parents are going to be divorced, my dad screwed us over with hundreds of dollars with gambling. My three best friends just died in a car accidend. My brother in law and sister are ignoring me because of protecting my littler sister and not telling my parents about things and they go and break a promise. I'm having to move schools, when the only thing i have to rely on is close to the house i'm living in now. I'm having suicidal thoughts and i'm just ready to give up everything. I have to deal with all my parents' problems because they just keep runing from them. My friends wouldn't understand if i were to lay this out on the table..i need some major help.
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (29 January 2008):
 I think the first thing is to try and deal with one thing at a time though life sadly rarely allows that luxury. The main thing I feel for you is that you must be feeling tonnes of different and sometimes conflicting emotions about these things that are going on in your life and you need to get them out there in the open. You can do that various ways; find somebody to confide in, start a journal, talk to a trusted adult, find a penpal, write to people on here...whichever way you choose just make sure you do it and you dont let it get to the point where you have so many feelings inside you that you want to burst.
You are feeling this way because you are under such immense emotional pressure right now and you need to relive that some way. I know you are feeling that the easiest way would just be to end it all in one fell swoop but that's not true especially for the people who love care and cherish you. You can't give up; you have a future and things will get better, you will get through this and good things will happen for you.
Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008): Hi Hunny,My heart goes out to you, This is all to much to take in for anyone let alone someone of your age. I want you to listen to me, ok? Nothing is worth taking your life for, You are far to precious for that. All this has come and got on top of you, and Im not supprised. Loosing your friends, and your parents divorce combined, means the very people who would have been there for you are in their own world. They are Not thinking, because of all thats going on in their own lives. Sometimes parents do this without thinking, as there is pain involved in all aspects around you. Your brother and sister inlaw all in their own world trying to protect your sister. And no one thinking about how you may be dealing with all this heartache. Moving to a new school is enough for some, as it can be a worrying prospect meeting new people and fitting in. Hunny I lost my best friend the yr before last and that was hard to deal with, You need a counsellor someone you can confide in as your brain cannot possibly filter all this hurt and put it into any form of prospective at the moment. If you need to talk to someone message me love and Ill try and give you some support as you go through this. WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS, MANDY xxxxxxxxxx
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