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*optop197
writes:There is this guy that I have a crush on. Sometimes I think he likes me and sometimes I'm not so sure. He is the brother of one of my friends on my soccer team. He is also my soccer coaches son. At the end of this year I will be 17 and he will be 18. I just saw him a few days ago and I got a ridiculously strong "I like you" vibe from him. These were the signs I got. 1. I got a ride with him and his sister and mom because his soccer team was going to be practicing with my soccer team. They had picked up one of his teammates before me, and this guy and the guy they picked up were in the backseat of the car and his sister and mom were in the front seat. So I ended up being squished in between the car door and the guy (It was very nice and he smelled really good :-). Not a sign, but just had to mention it. :-) 2. With his past behavior, he had always seemed uncomfortable and quiet around me, but this last time when we were sitting beside each other he seemed really comfortable and at ease, you know, laughing, talking and joking around with his mom and sister. Something he never used to do when I was around. 3. Before this, whenever I would say something, he would kinda ignore me or pretend that he hadn't heard me, but this time everything I said got a response of some sort, he would either answer me, comment on what I said or laugh or chuckle. 4. When we were picking colored pinnies for our teams (the pinnies, as usual were all thrown on the floor and we were supposed to kinda dive in and grab one) him and I were both sitting on the stage in the gym and instead of doing what he usually does, which is run over and grab a pinnie as fast as he could, he jumped off the stage slowly and watched me before picking the same color as me. 5. When a couple of the girls were trying to get his blue pinnie away from him so that they could be on the same team he didn't let them have it. 6. When our team was off and everyone from our team was sitting on the stage watching the others until it was our turn again, he always sat right beside me (when, all of the other times, he would stand on the floor on the far side of the stage) except for one time when there wasn't enough room beside me (he stood there for a minute looking like he was wondering if he should try to squeeze in or if there was enough room) and then he walked up onto the stage and stood leaning against the wall of the stage, where out of the corner of my eye I could see him looking at me. 7. When we were both sitting on the stage, I crossed my right foot over my left and he immediately did the same. We actually ended up sitting in the exact same pose. 8. When we were leaving the practice, he half heartedly fought his sister for the front seat but then gave up without much of a fight. This was unusual because I had seen them fight over the front seat before, and he fought much harder. He almost always won. The fact that he gave up so easily this time, could definitely have meant something. Possibly because I was going to be sitting in the back seat? I also saw him a couple of days ago when I was walking with my parents and little brothers. He was walking towards us on the sidewalk, but when he saw us, he crossed the street until we passed. I'm thinking that this was just because I was walking with my whole family and that would've been a bit awkward and uncomfortable. Thoughts? This might not seem like much, but if you knew what he was like before you would know that he was like a totally different person this time. I had gotten small inklings before but never with as much evidence as this. Whew! Sorry this was so long. Thanks. Let me know what you think! And by the way, I do realize that I am probably totally over analyzing everything, but what can I say... I'm a thinker!"
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (7 May 2009):
 It looks like you are quite hyper observant, although these signs are kind of pronounced.
My advice is; just leave yourself open to him. Be friendly and available. I think you are probably right about why he crossed the street. Being confronted by an entire family can be quite intimidating.
Believe me, if he likes you and he has the opportunity he will let you know. Doc
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reader, carolinee +, writes (7 May 2009):
i would say he does like you but then again im not sure. I would say the best thing to do is ask him, or ask his sister if he likes you! Or would go on a date with you. It is the only way you'll ever know if he has a thing for you! Good Luck
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