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writes:So, me and my bestfriend have been close for years now, and im currently at a university but i am transferring out to my community college for next semester, where she is. And then in fall 2010, next year i'm looking to go to a school out of state, far away. And of course i have discussed this with my bestfriend, and she wants to go to the same college as me because she says it will be the only way she'll be happy. and i want her there, i love hanging with her, i mean we've known eachother for years now so its not that i dont want her to be my roomate at college, but i feel like i might be held back in doing certain things because she just knows me so well. i dont know what to do, should i continue to apply to the same schools, because i feel ike i have no choice, she wants to go where i am,....what would you do if you were in my situation? she means the world to me and i never want to lose her friendship. but what other option is there, i dont see one.... please help me out, thank youu!
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reader, petina1  +, writes (1 October 2009):
 It won't do you any harm to be at the same college. Some people are very lonely when they are somewhere new. Your friendship will help you both and make you more confident. You can study together, you can socialize and watch out for each other. Chose other subjects different to each other for a break if need be and a chance to meet other people but if y ou are as close as you say it will be a good experience for you. You may miss her terribly and have regrets if you make the decision to leave her behind. It's a big world out there and if you are on your own can have complications with people you hardly know. Hope this helps.
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