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Boyfriend and female friend--more to it than what it seems?

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Question - (26 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 September 2009)
A female United States age , *agurl178 writes:

dear cupid,

me and my boyfriend have been together for a yr and a half and my boyfriend has to many female friends that he talks to there is one particular one that he talks to and text everyday sometimes they don't talk for months then all of a sudden it starts again. for about a month now they have talked everyday and text as well he says they are just friends but my question is how can you just be friends if you are texting all day and talk on the phone for 15 to 45 mns at a time and he doesn't talk to her except when he's at work and when i'm not around he has talked to her 3 times in front of me but if i ask if he talked to her he gets defensive and don't want to answer he will sometimes say he hasn't talk to

her and i know he has because we are on the same phone plan and i can see when and how many times they talk and text. how do i stop this and do you think there is more to it than just friends.

tired.....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2009):

They are together. I had the same problem. They told me they were the best of friends kept their friendship friendly in front of me then 9 years later they just had some kids together. You do not want to get hurt so leave now. Becuase mine started a year and a half after we were dating. So talk to him if you think he is cheating but he won't tell you the truth go with your instink. I started that way now I have two step children and none of my own. Still married and trying to deal with it but If I had the chance I would step off not to feel this pain again. If

your tired now get out

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