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writes:I'm just approaching 50,i've just seen a guy i knew over 32 years ago on a well known social networking site,i know its him,from the things he has said in a group on there,he's changed his surname though.I contacted him but he wont acknowledge me,was wondering why?I didnt actually go out with him as such,he kept trying but i was more interested in his friend.we was only young at the time.I know along time has passed but i dont think his memory is that bad.I'm not looking for a relationship with this guy but was just being friendly.He seems to have other girls on his friend list from years ago,so why not me.any ideas?He could at least answer the message. Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (2 October 2012):
 I'd guess that:
1. It's not really him
2. It is him, but he has not clue who you are
3. He isn't interested.
So either way you threw the ball in his court, nothing else really you can do.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (2 October 2012):
 Well, ..why would he REPLY to you . 32 years !? what possibly can you talk about with someone you saw 32 years ago for the last time. Personally, if I have managed to stay 32 years without feeling the need to contact a certain person,... chances are that I will be fine without that person for the next 32!
Yeah, .. mine is not the Facebook spirit, I know....:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2012): I'll take a wild guess here he probably hasn't got back to you because either...
It's not him.
OR
He DOESN'T want to talk to you.
See it's the simple.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 October 2012):
 ok the only men i know who change their surname are married.
my fiance is changing his on saturday.... I work with a guy who takes his wife's last name.
why did he change his surname?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2012): It was 32yrs ago! Why are you so worried about it - maybe he is thinking what to reply back. if you have 'only just' contacted him, wait.
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