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writes: Hi,I have started working in this business for about 2weeks, i love my work but there's this guy who works with me. He's not in my department but I see him most of the time. For the two weeks i've been there...we started talking alot. Everyone in my work tells me he's a player..but i'm attracted to him alot still. I've jus been out of relationship too, so i'm on the rebound which makes it harder considering i have to see this guy every day at work. Then about 2days ago,a group of us went to a party.Most of the people paired up and we ended up hanging out with eachother. Then after dancing whole night, we ended up making out. It feels weird in work now...being around but he continuously calls me in the night...and he seems sweet to me. However i jus don't know if i'm being unprofessional and i need to quit what i'm doing. Any advice?
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reader, camille  +, writes (1 June 2006):
 For the time being, stay away from him if you can. Don't take his calls in the middle of the night but be pleasant and friendly at work. If he has a reputation, you need to give him time to win you over if he's seriously interested. Make sure you're not just he latest conquest or the new girl that he's trying to nail. (Sorry) Also, you've only been thre 2 weeks and it would be awful if you ended up getting a bad rep (as the girls do) as he is hailed a stud. Take it slowly and get on with your job, don't leave but be professional, it's early days.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (31 May 2006):
 Work is where alot of people meet future patners and hook up with others because its somewhere we spend alot of our lives. I dont think you are bein unprofessional as long as you dont let it affect your working life too much. Try and seperate the two as much as possible and you should be fine.
I certainly would not leave a job you enjoy doing just for the sake of this. I
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