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writes:Ok so i have a very big problem. Im a virgin so this brings my problems down a notch but I really really like 2 guys whom are best friends. Its very complicated on how it managed to get as far as me actually liking two best friends. basically they both like me but i would never come between them they love each other too much idk what to do. I've tried staying away but THEY come back. at first i felt it was a game to them because i am a virgin although one of them did touch me sexually but he happens to be the one i care less about. Please dont judge my situation. Its very complicated but it is a situation. What should I do?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 September 2012):
 I agree with Cerberus... it's not your job to take care of them... if you like one more than the other then go for that one...
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2012): OP it's not up to you to protect their friendship and there's no way you could come between them, they're the ones that are making the choice to pursue you and who's the say that should you choose one things would go wrong in their friendship?
They may already have agreed that whoever gets you the other will respect that.
I say if you like of the guys then give him a go and of course do not let the other one pursue you anymore.
It's not your problem what happens to their friendship, they're the ones who have to protect that and if their friendship can't survive them both liking the same girl then it's going to fall apart in the future no matter what happens because they seem to have the same taste in girls.
I say go for it. You have to protect you and your friends, you can't be worrying about protecting other peoples friendships too OP, you have your own life to lead and your own friendships to maintain. You would have nothing to feel bad about.
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