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*udeywoodeyrocks
writes:i have a boyfriend who on the scale of 1-10 i like him 8. but i like this other boy loads and on a scale of 1-10 i like 9. i thought i loved my boyfriend, but he really really shy and im getting really bored of it, we have snogged once but he hasnt made a move since that. the other boy i like is my ex, i told him that i like him alot and he told me that he likes me more than anyone else. i really dont know what to do and i just havn't been acting as i normally do says alot of my friends. you see i feel like i just can't let my boyfriend go but i dont wanna be with him, i think what i am saying is that i want HIM to finish with ME :L
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reader, kingriley36  +, writes (29 April 2010):
yes, but i dont need to live with this decision... in the end you need to decide
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (28 April 2010):
 See?..Then you have your answer :don't do unto others...
Sorry my dear, I understand you may be confused,but I mantain my opinion. If while you are dating a boy, and in the meantime you are always thinking about someone else, and having misgivings, and hoping that your boy will spare you the effort of dumping him - then you are using him, and you are selfishly preventing him from finding another girl who will love him and accept him unconditionally.
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reader, judeywoodeyrocks +, writes (28 April 2010):
judeywoodeyrocks is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCindyCares you see ive had it done to me before, exactly the same actually, and i know it feels horrible, this is the first time ive been on this end, and it feels much worse, to the point where now ive gone into deep depression. and kingriley36 to that question i do not know the answer, ive thought about that question now for 30 minutes and still i dont have an answer :(
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reader, kingriley36 +, writes (28 April 2010):
if its ot working out all that well. theres a reason to break up with him... if it is going good.... it would be unfair to break it off.... if u could save one of them from a cougar attack... who would it be?
questions like thiss u need to get answerd
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (27 April 2010):
This is called passive-aggressive behaviour,and it does not feel that great whan you are on the receiving end of it. In fact, it feels rather horrible. But you will realize it only when it happens to you . Then maybe you'll change your mind about the acceptabilty of toying with people's time and feelings.
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