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writes:Hey, well im sort of touching a senstive matter and i could perhaps use abit of advice. Im 14 years old and well im a girl and i like to watch porn. i watch metro sex porn, the thing that i dont really understand is when i watch metro sex porn i get more turned on by the women than i do the man. also i have watched lesbian porn aswell and i got really turneed on by that. I am starting to wonder if i am bisexual, i never have fancyied a girl and i have never looked a girl up in the street and thought wow shes fit or anything like that. i would never want to have sex with another girl either but why do i get so turned on when i watch to girls have sex ? Im rather confussed and could do with some advice i do understand that porn is nothing like real sex and most of them have had some sort of plastic surgery and i know it may sound like im obsessed by porn but i trust me i am not. So the big qeustion is am i Bisexual ?? All advice is welcome thankyou.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): I am a woman who has always been turned on by sexy, confident women. Here's my dirty little secret- I want to be them, be like them, be as admired and sought after as they are. Sex is one of those taboo topics that people hush up, or bluster about, but no one you know well, at least in my generation, ever would tell you anything specific about it. We take our sexual cues from society at large. If I'm in a room full of sexy people, I feel more sexy, myself. I guess that's part of the attraction of parties, nightclubs, concerts, etc. People are on top of their game, all fixed up and ready to make eyes at prospective partners. So, yes, I am a woman who watches women, and I admit it. Not necessarily porn, but real woman in real life. Women have so much magic and creativity, mystique and power. I guess I keep hoping some of that will rub off on me, and my man will think I'm a goddess.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): Well I totally get turned on by women and I am a woman. It's when you're having an orgasim you feel wildly turned on. It's just your hormones, maybe one day you will feel for a woman. But try to figure yourself out.
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reader, Drat001 +, writes (22 March 2011):
Honeypie has a very good point. Unless you've had multiple sex partners, watching porn is a bad, very bad way to try to understand what sex is like. It's acting and the things they do is not what 99.999% of the population really does during sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAhh thank you. im sorry i was just abit curious. and honeypie i am completely aware that porn is fake and real sex doesnt normanlly happen in them conditions and real women and men dont look like that. Thankyou both
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): I completely understand. I'm an 18 year old girl and I also get turned on by women in porn but have never been with a girl or ever want to be with a girl. I dont think your bi-sexual, I think your just curious and possibly envy the plesure the women in porn are seeming to get and want that plesure too. Mayb, idk. But that's how I've looked at it as cuz I've ALWAYS been turned on by women in porn and not the men. I have only been with guys and have never have had the desire to be with a girl.Hope this helped:)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (22 March 2011):
 "i never have fancyied a girl and i have never looked a girl up in the street and thought wow shes fit or anything like that. i would never want to have sex with another girl either"That answers your question, no you are not bisexual. You like guys. That makes you straight. Fantasy and real life are two different worlds.
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reader, soon567  +, writes (22 March 2011):
When I first join the military I went into the military I had a few female friends. I got there and the five of us was watching porn as well. Mainly female and was more then turn on by it. Trust me those females weren't gay in the least bit. I still remember her name, She told me the fastest way to turn on a female is with another female and that stayed with me for life.Female kiss, hug passionately and hold hands, yet they're still not gay.The essence of sex is Marked as "feminine” Everything that sell or most thing that deals with intimacy is center around a female. No your not gay nor bi just be you.Now if you see a guy being turn on by another guy...well that gay!
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (22 March 2011):
 This may sound old fashioned but watching porn at 14 gives you a skewered view of sex. Porn is FAKE, it's PRETEND, it's FANTASY and MAKE BELIEVE.Does watching two women have sex change your sexual orientation? I don't think so, it might peek your curiosity. Doesn't make you gay,straight or bi.
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reader, kaykay1989 +, writes (22 March 2011):
 The answer is No yournot bisexual. If you don't physically find girls attractive when you look at them on the street and don't think wow and you DEFINATELY wouldn't sleep with when then your now a bisexual. Everyone find different things turn them on and il think you'll find that a lot of women would say the same thing that they are more interested in the girl or they enjoy girl on girl action in porn. It's just what turns you on there is nothing strange or weird about this so please don't worry.xoxoxox
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