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writes:im 15 and my ex is 13. we went out for a few months and during this time we did have sex. it was my first time so i was insecure about how i looked, what i was doing and like all guys, my penis size. its only 5.5 inches and my ex is now spreading rumours that it is tiny and that it was so small we had to stop, whereas she got a text from her dad saying he would be home in 10 minutes. I cant believe she would do something like this and i have absolutely no confidence now. what should i do
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reader, Daaviee +, writes (23 March 2011):
Daaviee is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you so much to those who have replied..... You really have given me reassurance on this matter..... Very big thank you to you all xD
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): Sorry, I meant the average is 5-7 inches ERECT is the average.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): The easiest way to defuse this is not to give a toss what this witch thinks. She'll have enough trouble finding a decent person if they all know she'll back-stab them at the first sign of a bump in the road.If you need to answer anyone's questions about it... just say that she is mistaken. Because even a 747 looks small when you are flying it into the Grand Canyon.This of course, if kids are smart these days, is basically calling her a slut. Without actually resorting to nasty words to do it.Either way, fuck her. If this is the kind of crap she likes to do, then you are well rid of her.Besides... 6-7 inches is the average. Almost all white, caucasian males fall into this category. Those that don't are either smaller than usual or larger than usual. And in the large case they are either freaks of nature of surgically enhanced.Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): You are 15. When I was 15 I had 5inch now I got 8.
Don't worry about the rumours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): Well, 5.5 inches is not tiny. Your ex must have watched too much porn in order to have that mindset lol but I would call it average size. Besides you're only 15, so it will probably grow more as you get older. I wouldn't be too bothered by her spreading rumors. If anything, it should hurt her more than you, because at least some people will view her as slutty for having sex at 13, and petty for feeling the need to tell the whole world about it, and also feeling the need to cut you down. She sounds very immature, just be glad she's your ex.
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reader, Daaviee +, writes (22 March 2011):
Daaviee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou to you all but she has already had sex before and her mum and dad know that she isn't a virgin.... But thankyou all for this and I certainly feel better about it
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (22 March 2011):
 Your penis hasn't reached it's mature size and your girl hasn't reached the maturity to handle having sex and not blab to the countryside. Good lord, doesn't ANYONE enjoy those wonderful teen years anymore?????
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (22 March 2011):
 What should you do? Get over it as life is full of gossips and not very nice shallow people. Not all girls are that interested in the size - it really is what you do with it that matters. Her approach to dealing with your relationship being over reflects her age and lack of prior sexual experience (I hope!). To be honest your dimensions are pretty normal and average for mankind. If your ex is spreading rumours then she is basically shooting herself in the foot...you should try to see the funny side. You were good enough to be her boyfriend, you were good enough to start messing around physically with...so who is to blame here, you or her? She is basically an immature girl who is trying to make herself feel better about the relationship breakup. At 13 she really shouldn't have been attempting to have sex, let alone broadcasting that fact around the community...I am sure her Dad will be dead impressed when he hears about it. Just be thankful that you are no longer dating her and perhaps save yourself for someone a bit better (that may mean waiting a few years). Put this in context, there are thousands of people who died in Japan last week - they would be happy to swap situations with you right now.
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