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writes:There's this guy I like I have known him for a while. Even his parents and three sisters know me(cause I spent some nights with his lil sister cause we r best friends), but I don't know what to do. I'm in 7th grade but he's in 6th and has a girlfriend who is cheating on him with his best friend(he knows about this and the girl dosen't even go to our school). what should I do?Please helpheartbroken princess
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2011): It doesn't matter what him and his friend's say about her, she is still his girlfriend and until he changes that, you can't be with him. Doesn't it make you think that if he talks about his girlfriend with his mates this way now, irregardless of what she has done, that if you were with him and you two had a fight he would be talking about you with his mates. I know you want to be with him, but he is with her, he puts up with her cheating and for now he wants to be with her, for whatever reason. Move on and focus on yourself, ignore what he says because it's what he does that matters, and what he is doing now is being in a relationship with her. If they break up and you still like him then, you can see if he likes you, but for now it's a no go.
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reader, heartbroken princess +, writes (30 November 2011):
heartbroken princess is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh and him and his bestfriend ride my bus and they talk about her when their other friends get on.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (29 November 2011):
 There is nothing you can do but wait. If he has a girlfriend, then regardless of how she treats him, he obviously wants to be with her otherwise he would have ended it by now. You dont know what goes on in their relationship so you cant think that just because she is cheating that you can be with him.
So all you can do is leave him alone and wait until the day he is single again. You cant make him like you, you cant make him dump his girlfriend...you simply have to let this one go, he is with someone else and that is the end of it. There are plenty more boys out there so move on!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2011): I'm sorry but he knows she is cheating on him and he is still going out with her, so there is nothing you can do. He is in a relationship and what ever is going on in his relationship is irrelevant. You like him but he isn't available, he has a girlfriend, whether or not she cheats is his business, not yours. You have to move on and find someone who is free to be yours, and who wants to be. I'm sorry I know you don't want to hear that, and that it hurts, but it's his decision and he has decided to stay with his gorlfriend, if that changes in the future, and you still like him then you can try to see if her likes you at that time, but for now he is with her and that's all there is to it. Good Luck.
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