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I like an older guy who has a girlfriend--what do I do?

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Question - (20 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i am 16 and i met this guy who is about 22 or 23, he is perfect in every single way but he has a girlfriend his age. what shall i do, i cant stop thinking about him and when we see each other, we always have a good chat. what shall i do??

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A female reader, Sweet-thing United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2007):

Sweet-thing agony auntThere's nothing you can do. He's not available to you. End of sentence. Plus you're under age and if he's smart, he wouldn't touch you with a 10-foot pole, less he could be brought up on charges for having sex with a minor. You need to find someone your own age. Maybe after you turn 18, he will be single again and something could develop but I wouldn't hold my breath. Chalk it up to a crush and move on.

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A female reader, darksecretangel United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2007):

darksecretangel agony auntHey

Like yoummy mummy said you should just be a close friend towards him, if you tried to break him and his girlfriend up, it would be unfair and also if the man you liked found out what you did, your relationship with him could be damaged. You should just be there for him, if they break up he might ask you out but dont wait for him to do it, because it would be a waste

Good luck =]

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntJust be a friend towards him. He has a girlfriend and if you make a move against him then it wouldn't really be fair on the girlfriend or him. You never know they might finish, then again they might not so don't hang around hoping to get with him forever!

xxxxxxx

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