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male
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30-35,
*axi89
writes:There's a girl I've known for about 4 months. She is 2 years younger than me. She's in college with me. I talk to her regularly and we do share stuff with each other as well but lately i've realised that I am seriously in love with her. The thing is she's childish and when she's not she's very emo in a sense she doesnt talk much. She's only been with one guy in the past. But he cheated on her and she broke up with him several times but a year ago it ended. He basically was frustrated because he couldn't have sex with her whereas she strictly believes in sex after marriage. She's spoken to me about her past and so have I. The thing is I don't know how to approach the matter. Someone said I should take it slow. I don't know if she's attracted to me or not. I recently threw her a surprise birthday as well. Afterwards, in the middle of talking, her brother asks her 'your friends were really nice in arranging all that specially that bilal guy, that was really nice of him unless he likes you which would make it awkward'. She laughed to him and said 'no chance'. I don't know what to do. I have a feeling in my gut that she does have feelings for me but is one of those girls who've given up on men etc. What should i do?
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reader, awkwardllama  +, writes (5 January 2013):
I think that she might like you. People always say to go with your gut so dont doubt yourself she probably likes you but it is possible that your in the friendz zone. I would think about the consequences such as are you willing to make things awkward between you two? If you are okay with the consequences then talk to her in private tell her how you feel she might feel the same way but if your not willing to risk losing her then just stay as friends and see what happens in the future. I hope everything works out for you
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