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writes:we have been dating for 7 wonderful months. doing everything with her two boys 12, 13. suddenly she broke it off saying she needs to figure out some things like making sure she isnt confusing love for being safe (she was really abused bad for many years) and, and she says she needs time to miss me in conjuction with this. i asked her if she wants to end it, she replied dont make me answer that. i went to her house at midnite i woke up and had to see her so bad. drove 1 hr and 20 min to her house , we talked to me for 2 hrs and she was huggging me and kissing me and telling she misses me so bad and this is hard on her and me and her boys , next day she told me not to do that again because it reminded her sons when dad come at the same time of nite home and beat her. i said ok if i didnt we would be over, she will call me in a few days as she has done, she thinks i dont want a family again and i try to comnvince her i do and i really do, is it over or after some time will she be back in the past months she would always text "me we ,i need you in our life and how i made her feel so loved and wanted and she loves me so muchand im the most wonderful man she's ever met . i know she still wants me because she hasnt given me the final dismissal and she is going to call me in a few days. what happened?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe first person who answered this question is way off base
i never lied to her about nothing because she has mentioned that, ive told her time and time again i want her and her boys as a family again. and they keep asking her have i called yet. they really like me. i am very stable and i have never been dumped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni did have a relationship with my children,. i never lied to her about anything, she told me i was one of the most honest men she ever met
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): She feels you don't want a famliy again because you have had no relationship with your own children. She is learning about the real person you really are. If she still wanted you she would be with you. She has dumped you but can't find an easy way to tell you. The problem now is you just won't leave her alone. As much as you want to believe she wants and needs you because you keep telling her you will protect her, she is now fearing you. All of yor lies have caught up and she has found out the truth and there is nothing that can change that. You have done it in every relationship you have tried to form. Women find the truth out, they will play it cool while they get all of their ducks in order. You need to move on and leave her alone. You are not a stable person. You have been dumped again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): What do you mean you know? You really don't know. And when a woman says she's 'not sure' about the relationship, then you need to believe her.
I know it's hard, but you have to accept she will end things if she's not ready, or something doesn't feel right.
If you pressure her, she will not like it at all.
As the saying goes, 'if you love someone let them go(remain friends), and if they love you, they will come to you.'
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