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writes:What is the reason ,that I'm always so jealous of my close partners ex girlfriends?Even in long relationships,I'm obsessed with the thought ,they loved someone before me.And I keep hearing people go back to their high school sweet heart ,and that freaks me to death.My husband is nice, and I'm afraid I will wreck this relationship, because of my insecurities.I think about his ex @20 year or mre ago,than him...Well its partly because I know,it was very deep love ,and he felt very sad for a long time, and when he seem to be disstant from me I feel ,he thinks about her, and regreting me. It is so painful to me time to time, that I want to leave.I know I'm probably wrong, but what can I do to stop this insecure madness? And does anybody knows this feeling?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (3 August 2009):
Every time you think about it, just stop, and force yourself to think of your wedding day.
He promised to love and hold you. Remember they way he looked that day. Get the photos out.
Then remember how you felt then and go up to him and give him a HUGE snog.
Just kiss him and tell him you love him with a smile. You'll be surprised what effect that can have on a man.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): Yea i get this feeling with my bf sometimes....but i choose not to say anything to him because i know it's stupid thoughts. It could drive him away from you if you keep obsessing over it i mean think about it he's happily in love with you now and the relationship ended with the others for a reason. Also haven't you had past relationships? what if he was jelous about it and constatly thinking about it wouldnt you think that's silly?
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