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writes:Firstly hello =) I have a bit of a dilemma... It was my sisters 21st birthday and we all went to a club and my sister introduced me to one of her friends who I hadn't met before and when she did my jaw literally dropped she looked amazing. Anyways we got talking a bit (well as well as you can talk in a loud club..) and she had told my sister that she thinks Im hot so that was a good sign but nothing else happened that night. Few days after at work my sisters friend told my sister again she thought I was really hot and so I asked my sister to ask her friend for her number and my sister said she was pretty keen to give it to me. My sister has basically said her friend fancies me but yet in txt msgs and phone calls her friend hasnt actually told me she likes me and I don't want to look an idiot by saying I like her as Im not sure what she is thinking. Also this girl has recently broke up with her boyfriend and was treated pretty badly so Im not sure if she would want another relationship soon after. The other thing is as I said she is a good friend of my sister so If I come out and say something now and she doesn't feel the same it might make things awkward for there friendship as well. Another thing is this girl is absolutely amazing and I know lots of other guys would be interested in her and I would really feel like crap if another guy comes along and gets together with her cos I was too worried/nervous to tell her how I feel.Its just strange for me to like someone as much as I like her, I have never really had that before even tho I have only known her a short time. Anyways thats the best I could describe it all lol any help would be great =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2008): If you really like her, and you know that she likes you then be brave and invite her to meet up with you - just something relaxed and not like a full on date so there isn't too much pressure on either of you. Do something that means you can sit, relax, talk and have a laugh without having to shout over club music or the constant interruptions of friends. Maybe arrange to meet for coffee and some lunch some time, and sit and chat and let the chemistry develop between you naturally and, if it does, when it is time to part tell her that you have really enjoyed her company and ask her if you can see her again sometime soon. If she is willing then make the arrangements, meet up again and let it develop from there.Try not to go all full on with the "I really like you more than I've liked anyone else" speech, but do be attentive to her, pay her the odd compliment and above all be yourself!Good luck!
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