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writes:I need help..I love my girlfriend so much..and..I just want the best for her..but lately she's been adding people on a social website that she doesn't even know..and it's scaring me....I tried to talk to her about it but she just said I was being controlling and threatened to break up with me....and she doesn't even care about how it makes me feel....the main thing is that..I just don't feel good enough..she won't let her parents know that we're together and..I feel like I'm nothing....I just want a brown paper bag over my head....I'm not good enough for her..and there's no one else that I'd rather be with..maybe I should just suck it up and ignore even how I feel.... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2012): "Controlling" what a word used so often to cover for ones mistakes... or distract from what they are doing because they haven't taken the time nor care about what they are doing to you. She cings n't seee past her own feelings right now to see your. It seems you give her all she wants and she's having her cake and eating it too.. she's only doing what you allow. What if you had those talks about leaving? I'm not suggesting that but if you want her, and vice versa a talk and change needs to be done. Because you do deserve to be happy too. You seem to be a good enough person to put your neck out and care for someone else so much, then good things are to come to you. :)
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reader, Candycane1234  +, writes (7 June 2012):
 Sorry about this, when you say adding people is this men or women? She might be doing to look popular it could be any reason. Yeah try and talk to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2012): Be honest with her and try to talk about how you feel. She needs to know how upset her behaviour is making you feel. Also, do not think that you aren't good enough for her, you deserve to be happy too :)
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