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writes: iv sort of fallen for a guy at work in a big way and i think he feels the same hes a bit more open with his feelings because im worried. he says he wants to be with me and i ignore him because he has a girlfriend, weve had a thing for a while but kissed for the first time a week ago. he calls me in the morning and when hes going to bed, but do you yhink im wasting my time???
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (27 September 2006):
 well some men are in it for 1 thing sex and the way they do that is some times to start off with a kiss to soften you up then you do get soft and next thing your in bed with them so to prove he isnt the man ive just explained maybe meeting privately and telling him that you cant do this any more why he has a girlfreind and if he chooses to get rid of her then you will choose to have a permanant ralationship!
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reader, Toria +, writes (26 September 2006):
 It sounds like he is into you but before you two can pursue anything together he needs to be single and free for you both to make something of what is going on between you both.
Good luck :o)
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reader, camille +, writes (26 September 2006):
 I think you should try and stay well clear until his circumstances change. How would you feel knowing a boyfriend was calling some other girl first and last thing every day? If he's so into you, he won't mind finishing his present relationship before embarking on another. Sometimes men have feelings, enjoy the chase but don't really intend to give anything else up, so make sure you know his intentions. It's a bit late now as you've kissed, but give him anymore and you're not putting any value on yourself. Keep self respect, if he wants you, tell him you're not into sharing. Otherwise, yes, you're wasting your time.
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