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reader, well-help  +, writes (23 July 2010):
 okay well ive gotoff with load of lads when i've been drunk and when i've been really sober found ti harder because i've been less confident so no because you dont remember how you did it or anything so find someone who you care about and they care about you and just feel comfortable with and experiment with them x
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reader, zachhyy +, writes (13 August 2009):
no, because you will never get better. you should get with the boy your most comfortable with and you know wont be botherd if your not amazing. then you will have time to get better and enjoy yourself with the person you trust.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): no that would be a daft idea. if you are going to have sex or snog..whatever..then do it when your fully alert..and leave the drink for before you sleep where you arent a danger to anyone vice versa
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): Lol LOLM.. I remember first hearing that word on this site. They told me it was a british word for kiss so I told my husband that when he gets back next year, i was going to snog him.
Sounds dirty doesn't it? hehe..
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): Good point Army Medic. You should certainly not be getting drunk and you are too young to worry about your first kiss right now.
is that the age where you live? Here it is 21 to drink.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (8 June 2009):
 Yes do it when you are drunk.... When you are 18 and legally allowed to drink! ;p
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): Absolutely not.
You don't want to have to tell your first bf that your first kiss was when you were drunk. And you don't want to tell the guy who kiss that you only did it becuase you were drunk.
It should be special. Most people (i think) end up regretting their first kiss.
Mine was bad. I wish i had saved it for a more special person, or at least someone who I was acutally in a relationship with.
Plus, if you get drunk and put yourself in a situation where a guy thinks you want to get sexual with him, then most likely he will want to push for more. More that you don't want. It's sort of a tease to get drunk and kiss a boy and have that be it.
The best way to not go further then you want to go, is to not put yourself in the situation in the first place.
Just wait. THere really isn't much pressure to it. When you like him and he likes you, it's just a natural thing and not very difficult once you've done it. Good luck and take care of yourself.
~SY.
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reader, marie1982 +, writes (8 June 2009):
hi girl if you do it when your drunk ull still have to do it one day when ur soba so heres my idea for u dnt think about it just do it n il bet ul b suprised theres nothing to it, i know what your going through girl i was there once myself and im very shy i remember my hands were shaking my egs felt like jelly but i lived through it n if u work it out he'll do most of the work and way so girl what im trying to say is dnt worry bout it n just enjoy it ul remember it for da the rest of ur life so stay calm girl n have fun
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reader, Livelife  +, writes (8 June 2009):
I think you shouldn't do it drunk. I think you should do it with a guy you really like and who it would be special with and do it sober so you'll remember it. I'm sure it'll go fine, and I don't think the guy will mind if it's not perfect if he likes you. That's my opinion. I'm sure other people will give better advice, but if you need anything else, just message me or anyone else. Good luck!
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reader, LOML +, writes (8 June 2009):
 What's Snogged ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): No, I don't think you should 'plan' your first kiss. Just let it happen when the time comes, whether it's when you're drunk or when you're sober with a nice boy.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (8 June 2009):
 hun don't do that!you want your first kiss to be special right?then just do whatever feels right make him go in to kiss you and just followi am 20 years old and i still ain't had my first kissi'm the same as you i'm too shy tbh but i do want one i can remember i don't want a drunken one.just kiss a guy you feel comfortable with not a randomer :)it'll be worth itHope this helps.
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reader, lm9hi +, writes (8 June 2009):
 I was scared about my first kiss to. I think i was 14 and it was during a game of dares lol. Dont do it when you are completely drunk, just a wee bit so you come out your shell more. You will want to remember first kiss so a wouldnt get to drunk. There is no such thing as a bad kiss to be honest, everyone kisses different so you can never be sure, just relax and enjoy it :)good luck :D x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): I'm 21, and all i got to say is that your still very young and shouldn't even be letting this get to you in such a way!! just stay in school and don't be a slut. if you kiss now you might be another pregnant teen next year. young boys can take advantage of a poor innocent girl very easily..especially with their hormones whizzing around.
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