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How do you know when the love has died?

Q.   How do you know when the love has died? I have been married for 15 years to a wonderful thoughtful loving guy, for 10 of those years. Then because of something that happened 5 years ago in his family, he thinks he was pushed aside, hes fallen out ...

A.   16 June 2009: Talk to him about how you feel and try seeking help and if he's willing to meet you half way then try and stick it out you guys have been together 4 a very long time I don't think its gonna be that easy for either one of you to just get up in leave ... (read in full...)

He wants me to squirt but I'm not sure how?

Q.   My fella wants to make me squirt, and im really open to the idea. the only thing is, a fair few times ive been really close, (with the sensation of needing to pee) and tensed up because im scared i will. are there any ways to ensure i wont? i...

A.   16 June 2009: When u feel like you have to pee don't tense up its not pee just let it happen it feels really good lol... (read in full...)

I slept with my best friend's ex boyfriend, should I tell her or not?

Q.   I dont know how to say this... but I dont know if i should tell my best friend about i have slept with her ex boyfriend once even i dont remember that night at all. its not like i have feeling for him... my ass! but... my best friend have a new ...

A.   16 June 2009: Yes tell her because what if someone else tell her 1st things could really be bad... (read in full...)

I like a guy my best friend used to date

Q.   well i like this guy and he likes me but we can't be together cause he was recently with my best friend and when they broke he started to say bad things about her so she doesn't like him.she knows he likes me but she doesn't know i like him i really ...

A.   11 June 2009: What should you do? You said yourself that you to couldn't be together because he use to date your BESTFrIEND so why would you wanna date him and if u do decide to date him what about your bestfriend and her feelings Think about it if it was the ot... (read in full...)

I love him but he doesn't love me back and it's driving me crazy!

Q.   I am a sixteen year old gurl and i love this guy, i cant stop, I cry over him a lot, I've liked him for almost this whole year and he said he doesn't like me and I don't know what the hell to do! Help me plz I am going crazy here!...

A.   10 June 2009: Find somebody else ... (read in full...)

Help!!! My boyfriend would rather spend time with his friends than me.

Q.   I am so in love with my boyfriend, I do so much for him, I go out of my way for him, I hang out with his friends, I tell him how much he means to me and how I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him. My boyfriend however does nothing for ...

A.   9 June 2009: How about trying not to be available all the time Maybe go hangout with some of your friends have a girls night out somedays get out of the house and then maybe hell start missing you being around so much and maybe even things would chnge 4 the ... (read in full...)

Is cheating wrong with one other person?

Q.   I am on here to ask for advice and comments. I have a child by my man who is 30 years older than me. We have love for each other, however im not in love with him. I have cheated on him twice sexually and don't really regret it because he can't ...

A.   9 June 2009: I think you should seperate and find somone who fit your needs and wants.. And you said it your self that your not in love with your husband anymore and your out cheating on him so what are you holding on to if there's nothing there? ... (read in full...)

I haven't snogged a boy, should I do it when I'm drunk so there's less pressure?

Q.   Hi my names Leigh im 15 and i havent yet snogged a boy. im too worried ill do it wrong. so many boys have wanted to go out with me but i always say no because im too scared about snogging them. i always get drunk on the weekend, should i just snog ...

A.   8 June 2009: What's Snogged ??... (read in full...)

Does she really care more about him than me?

Q.   Basically, my girlfriend of nearly eight months has been talking to this guy over the internet for about four years. She says they used to be, sort of together, long distance but then she broke with him (she says). Thing is, she always wants to ...

A.   27 May 2009: Seems to me that she don't even wanna be bother with you and why would you wanna stay around while she's into this other guy?? Its obvious she's more into him anytime she says"Why can't you be like him" if she really liked you then this other guy ... (read in full...)

Ladies, do you prefer pubic hair on your guys or not?

Q.   hey, I've been seeing a girl for about a month now, we've decided to move things on a bit and starting to do sexual stuff. Do girls prefer a guy with a bit of hair or not? I've not done anything before and do not want to be embarrised by my ...

A.   26 May 2009: I have to agree with angel91 haha Ive had the same experince very itchyyyy but,I perfer a guy with hair also...... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a taken woman but can't bare to walk away

Q.   Hey im in a very confusing situation im in a sort of relationship with a girl at work for about 5 months but she has a bf n he knows that we like each other and have had sex and he doesnt mind it infact he incourages it n i have to admit i love her ...

A.   26 May 2009: I dont understand this at all if her bf know that you guys are into each other why dont he just let yall be and if she feeling like she wanna be with you why havnt she left her bf yet?? If you think shes willing to leave the one shes with for you ... (read in full...)

He loves us both.

Q.   well ive known this guy for 2.5 years and we're best friends. we both know each other through drumline and we've become really good friends. we talk all the time, at school and over text. we talk about everything. we were talking one night and he ...

A.   26 May 2009: If he's still in love with his girlfriend of 3 years why would you wanna mess that up? Ask him if he's thinking about taking the next step to be with you and leaving his GF to be with you before you end up hurt or hurting someone else....... (read in full...)

I'm really worn out from all the sex! How do I get that through to her?!!

Q.   My girlfriend needs me to have sex with her three times a day. I use to love it but now i'm can't even say no to her without her crying and I can't stand hearing her so I give in. I'm really wore out from all the sex. I told her to cut it down she ...

A.   24 May 2009: Well I love to have a lot of sex also me and my bf have sex 2X a day I wish it was thre lol.. But I get the feeling at times he don't feel like it either he let me know when he's tired tho its understadable just talk to her and let her know your ... (read in full...)

I think we are falling apart...

Q.   Well I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years now Iam 20 and he's 21 we have a 3 year old child together and lately I've been feeling lonely like iam in this relationship by myself we never go out or do anything fun.Were always fussing and everytime ...

A.   20 May 2009: Thanks for the advice Ill try some of the things u guys sugguested...smh... (read in full...)

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