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30-35,
*ULIE MICHAEL
writes:i am now starting to get worried because ever since i started having sex i have never enjoyed it,i only get exited during foreplay but the moment i see we are about to do it exitement goes away i feel pain and i feel bad like "just finish up and leave"at times i feel like i just start hating the person who i have done it with it started from the first time and had sex and i even hated the guy i first did it with its even turning to a grudge i want to be ok i want to enjoy like others do i dont even cum at all am always feeling bad and it even spoils my mood and i even cry and i have never been sexually assaulted.but i just feel very angry during sex i feel like i can shout STOP.
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reader, JULIE MICHAEL +, writes (13 January 2012):
JULIE MICHAEL is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni will try talk to someone profesional because there is also no day that i will have sex and not feel bad i must also cry at the end of it and some time cry in the process
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reader, person12345  +, writes (13 January 2012):
 Maybe it's because your vagina isn't really able to provide pleasure at all. Very few women orgasm from intercourse. So if you're with guys who feel like "foreplay" is just a chore in order to get to intercourse, of course you're going to feel frustrated. Next time a guy wants to have sex, you should demand that you get an orgasm first (from "foreplay") before you can move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2012): I'm sorry you feel like this... It kind of sounds to me like depression. You say you never been assaulted so I think you should talk to someone professional about this. You should be able to enjoy sex like everyone else. If not liking sex is a problem it will bring problems to your relationship because you won't be able to love anyone because they had sex with you. You should really consider talking to someone so they can help you enjoy sex like it should be.
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