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writes:I have feelings for my friend but lately he has been telling me to get over him and meet other guys. He called me yesterday and asked me if I've been talking to guys and I responded no so he got mad at me and told me that I better have a boyfriend in 3 weeks or else he is going to get mad. He is complicated because before he would tell me that he had feelings for me and everything but lately he wants me to find a boyfriend.. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, michelle000 +, writes (27 April 2007):
First of all, your still very young. And if this guy is telling you to get over him and look for other guys. I think that is what you should do. And what right does he have to be mad if you don't have a boyfriend. Maybe at some point he did have feeling for you. But if he is telling you to look for other guys, you just don't need to waste any more of your time on him.There are so many fish in the sea, go catch another one. I hope this helps at least little bit.
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reader, NuttyGooner  +, writes (27 April 2007):
 Not much of a friend, is he?
Big deal you aren't seeing another guy, tell this joker that you will get a boyf on your terms, not because he demands it. You might like him, but he has no right to get mad at you for having the disease I call "standards".
Tell him to get lost, and make some better friends - as I said, go out with boys on your own terms!
Good luck! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2007): You are young, so don't pay any attention to this young lad. He got mad at you, er, tell him to buggar off. He sound young and immature and it is up to you to act the opposite. I would tell him straight that it is none of his business and let him know that you are not interested in him either. He obviously doesn't want a relationship with you so be the first to tell him to get lost.
Take care
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reader, XXpussycatXX +, writes (27 April 2007):
hun hun hun my question is why did he say it like that,,,thats an ultimatium i wouldnt put up with that who gives him the right you need to stand up for yourself and say il get a bf when im good and ready and not when you tell me i cant believe he got all mad about it sorry for rambling lol....yes i agree go and meet new guys but not if he is telling you to sorry couldnt be that much help
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