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writes:We hang out all the time, and we flirt and everything. We spend a lot of time together and she is a good friend. I have asked her out in the past, but she didn't want to risk our friendship. She just got out of a relationship then, and wasn't over it.I'm not sure what she wants right now, and I want to try again. After asking her out the first time, I backed off so her and I can kinda let things calm down. A few months later, she started getting really flirty towards me, and we hang out a lot and flirt a lot. We go out a lot, and sometimes she'll let me pay for her, but sometimes she won't. I don't know if I should keep trying or give up? And i'm not sure how she feels about me, at times she likes me, or it seems so. I know her past relationships, she was left heartbroken and she is afraid of getting hurt. But i've been around waiting for her and cheering her up for a while. What should I say, or should I just try to kiss her, either on the cheek or lips. I'd appreciate as many replies as I can get. I am so lost in this whole thing.
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reader, Slimsam  +, writes (25 April 2007):
Whoever replies to this,im also waiting since im going thro the same,im in love with ,not only my best friend,but my right hand man's ex.............i used to advise them when they were in theeir relationship for 3 years,when it cudnt work,i never commented,but she came to me 4 emotional support(as her best friend)
Today im so so into her,im sure if i lost her,id never love another woman
She is in love with me as well,but at times you just cant read her...............
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2007): HEY DUDE:o)
You should just start of by hugging her once in a while and then you should try 2 kiss her on the cheek!!!!!!!! But first ask her if she's over her last relationship and if she likes you more than a friend(at least a little)!!!!!!
Good Luck!!!!!!Hope I helped you out:o)!!!
Selenne:o)xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2007): i have that same god dam problem, the problem is not so much like yaself, i can never have the courage to ask her out just incase it ruins everythink. well thats what holds me back aswel. wasnt advice i was just agreeing wit ya, so u have any answers 4 me? bre my guest
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