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writes:I met a girl in the first week of my final year of university, the first week of her first year. We had a wonderful relationship and seemed to be really happy together throughout. In the final weeks of the relationship we started to talk about what would happen after I finished university. I had hoped we would at least try to make things work, but alas after 4 1/2 months together she said that she thought it would be too hard to keep the relationship going and she wanted some time to get used to life at university when I'm not there, so we finished.At first we tried to be friends, but I started to hear whispers about another guy hanging around and I found myself getting really upset about it, so I have cut contact with her. So, where do I go from here? I really want to be in a position where me and her can be friends someday, but I understand I have a lot of healing to do first. I am ready to do what it takes to move on from her in the hope that we will one day be able to at least establish a friendship. I would love that very much. So, what do I have to do in order to get there?
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (14 March 2011):
 Once you have moved on and found love again with someone new, it won't bother you at all. Until then it's probably better if you don't even try.
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