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writes:I've been in a relationship for 2 and a half years with a man with alot of history with women. He is a very sweet talker and women love him. He met a woman 8 months after we were together at a ski resort where he works. There was no sex involved with her. Shortly after they met the cards started coming in the mail and gifts for his daughter. By the way her marriage was crumbling. He knows that she is a thorn in my side but to this day he still gets text messages from her, not sexual but pretty pics of sunsets and such. Should I fell that this is wrong? I have asked him to have no contact with her but it continues, She lives about 5 hours away from him and I do believe she is in town! Help
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 January 2011):
 Ok so yes it sounds like your man might be a bit of a womaiser therefore i understand why you feel worried. She sounds like she is falling for him in a sense whether it be romantically or just a friendship she does want him in her life.
Ok so you say that you have asked him to stop the contact and he has refused to do it? You need to talk to him about it and explain to him how unhappy you are feeling with the situation ask him to explain to you why he is keeping her in his life let him have his say and hopefully the both of you can work through it.
Just try and remember that although you are in a relationship with him he should be able to have female friends as well and this is where trust comes in to it, because you should be able to trust him and if there has been nothing sexual passed between the two of them then you need to decide if you can accept there friendship or walk away. Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011): At the least he is having an emotional relationship with her. I'm not sure what he has said about it, but it seems that he will continue whatever is going on in spite of your feelings about it. So you have to decide if you want to continue with him. Since he is a sweet talker, you can only imagine what he is telling her!
He doesn't sound trustworthy to me. So I would leave him and find someone who is faithful.
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