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anonymous
writes:Okay, this is the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to me. My girlfriend, of nearly a year, and I experimented with oral sex the other day. She was amazing, I have never felt so much pleasure, but the problem is that I couldn't get, and stay, hard. Is this just because it was our first time? We had never seen each other naked before or anything like that? And I know it isn't like ED or anything, because I can make it hard and keep it hard myself, but just not when we were doing this...Is there something wrong with me? Or is this normal?
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (18 June 2008):
 Here's what you do next: Take a deep breath and RELAX.
You may also want to make sure your girlfriend doesn't think it was her fault or she may never want to do it again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): Honey you're just a bit nervous, so relax and calm down! She's not going to bite. And next time (presuming there will be one), she'll have seen/done it all before, so you have no reason to be worried honey.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): Don't worry, this happened to me too. Try breathing in and out really heavily to get your blood pumping, it also helps to relax you.
Good luck!
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reader, mum and 1  +, writes (15 June 2008):
this is perfectly normal i promise! you were nervous you wanted to please her, its a lot of pressure for you! was your girlfriend ok about this? have a chat with her if you can im sure shell understand and next time relax its sex if it goes wrong laugh about it, sex is fun relax and enjoy! and remember to always be safe!
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reader, nettles +, writes (15 June 2008):
 You are probably just nervous which can affect a man's ability to sustain an erection.
Its nothing to worry about as you know you can keep an erection.
Just explain to your girlfriend that you really enjoyed what she was doing, ensure she knows it wasn't her fault as her confidence has probably taken a knock as well and hopefully with more practise you'll be able to stay hard!
:)
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