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I have a very silly question .......

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Question - (3 December 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 6 December 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

This is probably a really silly question, but I guess if I'm going to ask anyone a stupid sex related question I would really rather ask the people on this site than anyone else!

Guys, girls, how exactly can you tell if a girl is loose? It's not exactly the kind of thing I'd want to ask my boyfriend because there's only one answer I want to hear. I guess I have no reason to believe I am other than the fact that my last boyfriend had trouble coming sometimes, it's never been an issue before or since then, and my current boyfriend kind of has the opposite problem.. so I guess I'd just like a little insight on this please!

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A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (6 December 2009):

bharat mehta agony auntThe question of loose vagina, implies question of sex pleasure, mind expect to experience in form of sexual tension.

When sex became more penetrative, also means it became almost mechanical. More penetration do not means more pleasure. Because, pleasure depend upon alchemy. Even little touch give you the experience of live heaven. This is the areas of knowledge remain as unacknowledged. The scientific knowledge about human anatomy and the so called exercise do not help much in the matter. the matter is not about tight grip, but about pleasurable current.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009):

Sorry to deliver the bad news but every woman is really loose once the vagina is lubricated enough. The more naturally lubricated she gets the more loose she gets. Any smart man shall realize that this is a sign of her being so into what she is doing, and subsequently is most likely into him per se. This is an Egyptian man in his early thirties here, sized way above average, and I confirm the topic to be a result of how much the woman enjoys it. Even the tightest vagina gets so loose once the woman gets seriously into it.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (3 December 2009):

DoubleM agony auntIt would be very unlikely that any young woman in her 20s really has such a "loose" vagina that could be noticeable to a normal sized man. However, women of more mature or senior age can definitely become somewhat loose, perhaps because of multiple child births, obesity or muscle degeneration.

Consider the vagina to be an amazingly elastic organ that can accommodate most any reasonable degree of penetration, yet also grip a fairly small penis. The generally accepted way for a woman to remain "tight" is called Kegel exercises, which strengthen the pubic floor muscles.

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A female reader, Sadnat South Africa +, writes (3 December 2009):

Sadnat agony aunti agree with the above comment

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (3 December 2009):

Generally, women aren't loose. That's just an insult used by men to be honest. When a man doesn't come, it's usually because he's under stress, or worried or something like that. It's nothing to do with you at all, so don't worry. Your new boyfriend just needs to slow down a bit, but other than that he seems to be more than happy. Don't worry, there's nothing wrong with you.

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