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*m1555
writes:I have a married woman chasing after me. Do i need to play hard to get? she has been married for 14 years and has two children. I have already told here i was attracted to her. her response was "that why i told you i was married up front" i am a single male in my mid 30's and she is the same age as i am. I also found out she had a previous affair! i have been knowing this woman for about 2 years. when we first met it was an attraction thing. we would look at each other. I never presued this because i knew she was married. then one day i came in to visit her because i have too. this is what she said" Im not getting any sex from my husband and i heard that getting some would be the best you would ever get. i have never give her my phone number or even ask her out for lunch. i also ask her what she had to offer me that i didn't already have or could get I have to see this woman once a month. any advise would help me. I know this is a dangerous game and i need to keep control.
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reader, duce00 +, writes (4 September 2007):
 Well, I guess you could "tap that ass" as you put it. Maybe you wont get a disease and you wont "fall weak to the game". Maybe you will have the best sex of your life! Theres one little catch though my friend. What comes around goes around (as they say). If you cross the line with this woman then dont complain when one day in the future your wife has a fling with some young stud. Imagine the woman you love getting the high hard one in some motel or YOUR bed! What would you in good consciense be able to say to her or him? If you really want to make good decisions with women stop listening to your little head for advice! He will allways tell you the same thing no matter what the situation is because thats his only goal in life!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): Hun
she is only out for sex, and so many people can get hurt its your choice but I would stay well clear as ive seen the flip side when things dont go as shall we say her way, if she isnt happy in her marriage she should do something about it, plus your probably not the only one to have been chased after if she is unhappy. TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXX
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reader, bm1555 +, writes (2 September 2007):
bm1555 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis woman is a CRNP I don't think there will be any STD! She also knows my medical history from 12 years i have not done anything with this woman never even Kissed her. I did tell her things would me better it she was single. And i left it at that!
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reader, bm1555 +, writes (2 September 2007):
bm1555 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis woman is an CRNP i don't think STD would be a problem not only that but she know my medical history!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): Hey! You are playing with hot, passionate, sexual fire and although it may turn on your normal, sexual desire you just may end up getting burned by STD. But then ,"Guess", it's your life. Me I wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole. I have more respect for my body than to mess with strange ass, so should you.
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reader, bm1555 +, writes (2 September 2007):
bm1555 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAll i was wanting to do was tap that ass for here. are you sure i will be the one to fall weak to the game?
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reader, tinkerbell01  +, writes (1 September 2007):
 hi, STAY AWAY! this woman is a bored house wife who is after something to spice up her life, and an affair is here answer, you said she had an affair b4, she still with her husband so what makes you think you will be different, you'll get a few quickies while the kids are at school hes at work, and b4 u know it you'll be in love with her and she'll be moving on to the next poor sucker.sorry for being so harsh but its the only way i knew how to put it xx
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reader, duce00 +, writes (1 September 2007):
Hi bm1555,
This isnt complicated man! All you need to do is go out and meet some un-married women. They are alot of fun trust me! Plus theres no guilt factor or psycho husbands wanting to kill you!
OK I know Im being a little flip here :)
But seriously this is bad news and you know it. Next time you see her and she hits on you tell her your not interested in being her boy toy. Thats all you would be. It is surprising for us guys when we encounter women like this. I understand your conflicted desire for sex. Its happened to me too. I didnt do the deed when it happened to me luckily. I was early 20's and she was older. Luckily I got a girlfriend before that couger woman could dig her claws into me.
I say get on with some viable women and stay away from this woman who is tearing her family apart. Ughhh doesnt that disgust you a bit?
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (1 September 2007):
 How would you handle it when her husband finds you? Maybe he's followed you. Will there be a fight? Or your possessions wrecked. Could somebody get injured? Or maybe she is bait for a threesome with her husband?If you're happy you can handle this then go right ahead.
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