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writes: I have a big crush on this guy and have done for five months! I have a reputation as being a swot and so does he. Everyone says we would be perfect together. The thing is I am afraid to ask him out! What should I do???Luv Hannah
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2005): I was in the same kind of position as you! I was terrified of asking this guy that I really liked out! If you really like him then you should just ask him and if he says no then there's no big deal! I did and he said no but hey I got over it! If he does't want to then he's obviously not worth it! Go fot it! Good luck, Ailsa. x
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reader, lulu-love +, writes (21 November 2005):
If you really like him then go for it. I'm sure he'd be just as worried about asking you out as you are him. Just take deep breaths and go for it girl!!
lulu xx
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reader, QOTU +, writes (19 November 2005):
 Life's too short!!! :-D GO FOR IT, GIRLFRIEND!
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (19 November 2005):
 That's easy Hannah! If you like him what does it hurt to ask him out? If you stay quiet about it you never have a chance and if you ask and he says no, at least you can move on. Go for it hon, I bet you will be glad you did!
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reader, shania  +, writes (18 November 2005):
 Ask him out for a coffee or to watch a movie,do it casually. You never know, he might say yes but if you dont ask,you will never know,will you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2005): As similar personalities, you are, of course, inclined to like this guy, but ask yourself this: Do you like him for him or his brain? It may sound like a stupid question, expecially as you have had a crush for almost a year, but what do you like about him? Is he funny, cute, or just a general nice guy? Once you've answered this, and if you still want to continue, ask yourself this: "Does he want the same things from a relationship as me?" If he does, then you already know exactly how to approach him and how to ask. If he doesn't, what does he want, and ask him appropriately. This is a sure way of getting the confidence to ask him, as you already are fairly sure of how he will react! You are the girl, and it is your job to figure out what he wants, as, let's face it, even the smartest guy doesn't have a clue about what we girls want in a man!
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