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anonymous
writes:Hello im 13, and 14 in a few daysi have this big crush on this boy and he has one on me, but he is known to be a bit of a man slut if you know what i mean. well he has had sex a good few times, i really want to loose my virginity to him, he is so sweet. but i need the confidence to just meet him to have a chat. i do masturbate a lot and it helps a bit, but i really want to have sex with him, im just really scared about condoms breaking. i have tried to say to my mother about contraceptive pills, but she said no and my school nurse can help me but im to scared to ask her, i need help please. thanks x
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reader, el Lori  +, writes (12 February 2010):
 honey, you are 13 you have your whole life to have sex. Plus if this guy is a man whore then you could catch something. Some STDs you are stuck with for life. Pregnancy is not the only thing to worry about. If you can not understand the machanics of sex then you are not ready. Be safe and wait. Best of luck
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reader, Lightningrod +, writes (11 February 2010):
if you are too scared to ask your nurse for pills you are not mature enough for sex. having sex means you have to be mature enough to ask for pills, go to the OBGYN when you need to, and in case of emergencies, hold your head high and ask for the morning after pill. if you are not ready to do these things, because that is just something that you will have to do after you become sexually active. you are not ready.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2010): Stop and think what you are saying! You are 13 years old, you body is not ready for sex and it is not a pleasurable experience your first time. You have your whole life ahead of you, you need to enjoy being young.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010): What help do you need? No one give you pills virtually, you know.
If he's sleeping around, and you are worried about breaking a condom, then he may pass on an STI to you.
Your body is still growing up. It's not done yet. To dump a sexual experience on girl's body is horrible. If you are not old enough to do adult things, you are not old enough for sex.
It's better for your sex life if you explore your body now... and let someone into it a couple of years later.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010): There are a lot of girls who lose their virginity with the local man-whore at your age.
And those same girls will usually regret that decision by the time they are 16 or 17.
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