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writes:I have a boyfriend and i love him to peices, i really do! But a boy I know has just asked me to have an affair, and i dont know if i should say yes. I really like him and before i went out with my new boyfriend i was always waiting for the boy to ask me and he never did, but now he has. He tries holdin my hand and kissing me and tellin me that he luvs me, in front of everyone and he doesnt seem to care whereas i do! I really like him but i dont want to be known as a slut!Plz help me, i stuck between 2 boys
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): i am the person who worte bout that im stuck between 2 boys. i didnt tell u everythin 4 i didnt think that no1 wud reply, these guys r best m8's nd the bf im with ist effectionate at all, the closest he has done anythin nice to me is sayin my hair looks nice. all im cravin is luv nd a bit of attention which the other boy givs me. i know this sounds like im a spoilt brat but im soooooooooooooooo stuck!
thnx 4 all the emails but im still stuck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): Hiya, All i can say is stay with your boyfriend..This has happened to me before but sadly i chose the wrong decision and went with the other guy, biggest regret ever as i left the most caring guy ever for a guy who pretty much used me. Dont ever cheat on anyone as its so hurtful and if your bf did it to you im pretty sure u'd be hurt. But in the end of the day do what will make you happy long term.Good luck x :)
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reader, Emzy1591 +, writes (7 May 2008):
 Ok Well firstly i agree with the other aunts- dont have an affair because it really isnt worth the hurt it will cause.
One thing that really bothers me is you say "before i went out with my new boyfriend i was always waiting for the boy to ask me and he never did, but now he has". This instantly strikes me that this guy only wants you when its on his terms. When you like him, he doesnt want to know however when your with someone else he thinks its ok to try and make you cheat. What does this show about the guy you liked before? Compare him to your boyfriend now who loves you unconditionally and liked you enough to get with you in the first place rather than keep you hanging around playing stupid games like the other guy.
Im sorry hun but if it was me, id tell the other guy to get lost and stick with my boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): You have a boyfriend and you love him to pieces.
You really like this other guy.
This says it all honey, love is what you should be going for. But you've got to stop all of this, because it's getting to the point where you ARE cheating if you're kissing and things like that. You've got to decide, before you break your boyfriends heart. I reckon you should tell this guy that you really like him, but right now you're in love with somebody else. After all, love makes the world go round. Not 'really liking'.
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reader, :):):) +, writes (7 May 2008):
Firstly, don't have an affair. Not just because you're boyfriend will get hurt but because this other lad dosent deserve to be playing second best.
It is a difficult situation and you must think hard about whether your present relationship is worth staying in or not.
If it is, then make sure theres some distance bewtween you and this other guy.
If its not, than let your boyfriend down gently.
Only you can decide what you really want.
xxx
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