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writes:hi.im abou to moan abou tmy boyfriends family cos im so nice like they are too me :) basically me and my boyfriend have been going out for ages and he has 2 sisters and a brother. his brother is fine i guess its just his finace!my boyfriends 2 sister are obbsessed with her and it drives me crazy! the other month we went out for dinner for their mums bday and his sisters were fighting abou twho were gonna sit next to her. for goodness sake they are 17 and 21! and they were fighting right in front of me and it made me feel really awkward.i know his mum doesnt like me very much either because she never lets me sleep round and if im round there they always argue about me. but god forbid if his brothers finace was round they dont have to ask is she can stay! its just so annoying.i have been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years.his sisters are always texting or writing on his brothers finances wall! its really unfair on me because i feel left out. i just dont know what to do it makes me feel like an 'outsider' and its got to the point where i dont wanna go to family events and stuff like that. i love my boyfriend so much, i just hate his family like they hate me :Dplease help me i dont know what to do :(
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 June 2011):
 OK so they are obsessed with her more than you, but maybe they like you as well it just might be a thing that they look up to her like a big sister figure or something like that. Just try and keep back and not allow it to get to you. Just remain friendly towards them and be the bigger person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do try I took his sisters to town and out for lunch but nothing works. They're obsessed with her. I don't wanna bother with them anymore. It's gets on my nerves.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (26 June 2011):
I don't think you should let it bother you that they seem to like his brothers fiancée more. Don't let it get you down. Maybe if you made more of an effort with his two sisters then they would do the same. Have you spoke to your boyfriend about how left out you are feeling? I guess the only thing you can do is try your best to be friendly to them and see how they react.
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