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writes:I'm 21 and bisexual and I have a girlfriend of 1 year, she's 25. She is my first lesbian relationship and at the beginning it was perfect. Things are still good now, I love her more than ive ever loved anyone, and I love spending time with her but recently I feel like I don't want to have sex with her any more and I don't even want her to touch me. I keep making excuses not to have sex and we haven't had sex for almost 2 months. We use to have sex like 8 times a day but for some reason I've really gone off it. When i'm alone I watch straight porn and I sometimes think about having sex with other girls that i know are interested in me and i never think about my girlfriend sexually any more. It's really getting to me, because she's wonderful and i never want to be without her but I can't keep going on like this because if she knew it would break her heart. What do I do?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 June 2011):
 When you look at her are you sexually attracted to her? Is it possible that you love her more like a friend other than a lover. There could be loads of reasons why you have went off her sexually. Maybe there is just a dip in your sex drive at the moment. You should try and spice things up this might make a difference. I guess all you can do is try new things, but am afraid you cant force yourself to be attracted to her.
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