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anonymous
writes:Ive met this guy online and we've been on one date, I was meant to see him yesterday but I had to rearrange to today. After i had rearranged it with him, he was being really blunt and short and even ignored some of our texts which makes me think he's loosing interest. Anyway, an hour before we were meant to hang out, he cancelled and said something had come up and he had to go to the hospital and that he would see me tomoro. However, i dont think this excuse is him being genuine..i could just be paranoid..but i think it may be because hes loosing interest and didnt know how to let me down gently. Any advice would be most appreciated. Thankyou.
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reader, stingbat +, writes (17 June 2011):
this is so easy as red athena says let it go!!! when you get to my age then paranior can set in but if he was short with you and you felt uncomfy with his answer move on. my advise is meet people face to face not via the internet, you can judge them quickly instead of what you hope they will be like, if he cant wait one day to see you then that dont look good for the future
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reader, llifton  +, writes (17 June 2011):
 sounds more to me like he's being vendictive. he assumed you cancelled because you weren't interested or because you didn't care. and not he's getting back at you and acting uninterested and cancelling, too. sounds like he's a giant baby, if you ask me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou you are completely right because Ive just found out that he had lied anyway, im well shot of him :)
Thankyou for your help xxx
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (16 June 2011):
 Continue dating others.
Let Mr. GottagotoHospital make a move to reschedule. If he calls, ask if everything is OK?
If not, let it go. It was only one date. No need to make an emotional investment there. Big breath and move on.
Better you find out early that someone is like that early on than dating for awhile and getting attached.
Best Wishes.
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