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writes:long story, cut short.ive been close friends with this boy for around 7 months.we met on the level of liking each other, but just devloped in to close friends becuase he didnt think i liked him and i didnt dare make a move.ive always liked him deep down, and i told him around 2 months ago.. unluckily he got a girlfriend the same day 3 hours before. But, they broke up because she cheated on him, about a month ago.the friday just gone we had abit to drink and ended up having sex, it was so special to me, i lost my virginity to him. this was his second time.The next day i told him how i felt and that i really liked him and to try things and see how they go.. , he's lead me on with some rubbish about not wanting to ruin things and hes stuck in between but he likes me abit.But no straight answer.Im so heartbroken, ive been crying for the past 3 days and its driving me mad, we cant possibly be mates now becuase its hurting me too much. im going to miss him so much i i have to delete him out my life, but being distance friends would be even more hurtul. The thought of him being with another girl , wrecks my brain. :(what do you suggest?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): I feel very sad to hear your story :( Very bad situation. If there is really no chance of him ever liking you back, I tell you that the best way to get over him would be to cut all contacts. If you still have some hope, stop thinking about what happened and just try to be cool with him. May be he is taking a little time to adjust after the breakup. After all he liked you once. So you may still have a chance. Good luck!!!
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