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writes:Please could someone help as I actually think i'm going loopy :-)My boyfriend and I split up 3 weeks ago. I was having doubts about our relationship but I didn't want to end things so I was really horrible to him and said hurtful things so he would end things so I could see how I feel... I know this was wrong and that I shouldn't have done this. The next day I felt like I made an awful mistake, I told him why I did what I did and he was very hurt as he loved me and said that he couldn't give me another chance. The next night he rang me saying he wanted to sort things out but needed a while to himself but stupid me rang him about four days later, actually to tell him I missed him and it ended up in an argument then he told me he couldn't get back with me but he still loved me. I've given him the space. I sent him a message on Sunday just asking how he was and he was really chatty with me. But saw him out last night, I had had a bit to drink and I ended up texting him asking if he wanted to go out just as friends to clear the air and he didn't reply so because I was drunk I ended up getting angry and sending an angry message to him. I've now pushed him so far away that I don't think there's any hope of him coming back and I think I may have lost him altogether. I think the hardest thing is that I know he still loves me as he has told me and friends this but I can't stop pushing at this hoping that we will get back together.
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reader, jenny2005 +, writes (1 May 2010):
dont give him space, try and sort it out. i made that mistake and gave him too much space, now he has gone forever.please if you truly love him, tell him so
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 April 2008):
 If you are meant to be together,
fate will meet you up somewhere down the road.
Just give him time and space .
Time is a great healer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): Hey girl, I kno what you are goin thro only too well. I'm going thro exactly the same thing as you are at the moment. We broke up over something and nothing! I knew I had made the biggest mistake in my life in doing this. So 2 days later we met up, talked and he said he wanted a break for a few weeks. Its been the hardest and longest few weeks of my life! I've only heard from him once and its been nearly a month now! I'm trying to give him the break and space he wants but... its breaking my heart at the same time! It will be amonth next week, and I'm going to wait til then and contact him then and see what happens...
Maybe you should do the same. He's probably hurt like my guy and wants some time on his own... Don't contat him first - give him some space to get his head together.
Best of luck and hope it all works out for you both
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